SkyFire

Having fun does not make you immature!

If they are your real friends, you will not. If you dont like clubbing, dont do it

If you dont like his style, doesent mean he doesent. Dont try to "change" guys, we hate that. Give hints about it, but dont be too pushy.

Who the hell CARES?

Well, since the school hirearchy DOES exist, most girls want guys that have power. Simple as that. Guys that are being guys. Social status DOES matter to most girls (sad, really).

You should not care what girls want. Do not abandon your old friends and your beliefs just because it is "cool" or will hurt your social status. Stuff like that is pathetic. Follow your own ideals man.

BAD IDEA. Ask them out yourself. You are no longer in elementary school.

theres nothing i can do

WRONG

So you've given up?

I am sorry, I can help you no longer. You will see the light and ACT when you are ready to... I guess you are not ready now.

If that poem is about yourself, I have advice for you:

Wake up, stop wallowing in your own self-pity, get out there and do something about your unhappiness.

YES!!! TRUST THE GUT!!!

How about this:

Get your work done, pay attention to the teacher.

And AFTER CLASS, chat her up.

 

Actually, if both people feel the same way, that is the one time I advocate turning a best friendship into a relationship.

But you see, the friendship is far more valuable to both of us.

Forget her. Seriously. By now you should learn your lesson.

"She" is alone because she does not want to get up and do something about her loneliness, but she sits there and wonders about the unfairness of it all.

My humble opinion.

Lots of times I think a girl is out of my league

You shouldnt think like that. What exactly makes her out of your league? Are you saying she is so godlike that you arent worthy of her? Weird, I have never met a chick like that.

Now tell me, why are you "out of her league?"

Plz help i'm desperate.

There is your problem. If you are desparate to get girls, you will never get them.

Women arent attracted to what jeans you wear. They are attracted to the man inside those jeans.

Wear what you want, not what you will think will get you girls.

I always do.

Shyness, in my opinion, is just another word for fear that people use as a self-excuse to stop themselves from approaching.

i was raised a jehovahs witness so that meant no social life outside the church. friends were brought to me wihtin the congregation, and i couldnt hang with anyone at school. ive made a few friends in school though. but i would like to hang out with them now that i have more freedom like having my own ride. and my friends at the church screwed me over but thats another story.

I see.

Be friendly to people. Be friendly, but do not let people use you or walk over you like a door mat. Ask your school friends to go chill on weekends. It isnt hard at all. If you havent, get their phone #'s. As for making new friends, do things outside of school. Go to the park, talk to people. Be social.

Good luck.

Proceed by not giving a **** about her. They always come back.

Really? Because I've met loads of women I thought I clicked with, asked them out only to be met with the proverbial cold shoulder. Don't forget that in nature the male often has to chase the female or put on some big display, and the winner takes it all. If we went back to nature quite a lot of males would never mate. I don't think anyone wants that.

Probably because they weren't attracted to you.

The male's "big display" is himself. His image but even more importantly character. Everything he is and everything he stands for.

You say if we went back to nature many guys would never mate....

Half true. I do not think that back in the days of the caveman men had a problem expressing their interest for women, and lets not even mention thinking silly things like "does she like me?".

/Should I/

No.

He has moved on with his life.

My advice to you: Do not date your friend's sister.

It is hard to find quality people these days. Very hard.

Yes, the world is a crappy place. Every man for themselves.

Do not trust people unless they earn your trust. Do not give 110 % of yourself to people who do not deserve it. That keeps you from getting hurt.

Stay strong and good luck.

She's using her tears to manipulate you.

Correct. Do not say "it's my fault". Do not take the blame.

You can talk to her about it. Face to face.

If I was in your place, I would end it, because there are far better people out there that will not do this.

Good luck.

okay i am looking for some female opinions and males 2 if they so wish. i was just wondering do girls like to be asked......can i kiss you.....or do girls like it when a guy just goes for it...... always wondered i know it depends on the girl just curious thats all.

Just kiss them.

I have the same passion as you. Guitarist as well.

First, how old are you?

Join a band to gain experience and find out how things work.

Or, you can be in the road crew. A great place to start. You learn about all the hardships of life on the road, and figure out how things work behind the scenes. THEN move on to a band. Currently, my school is doing a program that educates you on this.

Intelligence is important. If a girl is good looking but lacking intelligence, I would not date her.

Who cares about exes?