SuperMotivate

Valavoo, unless you're being a posting terrorist I highly doubt the Mods would mind if you created another thread. Pay those people no mind, just gotta take it with a grain of salt.

Hey Valavoo, a lot of people on here are either jaded, bitter and hurt about their situations but don't let that deter you from making your own threads!

Day 7: I wasn't even keeping track of how many days that I haven't been in contact with my ex, been too busy working and enjoying myself. She has contacted me once after 3-4 days of no contact, I have a good feeling that she probably thinks I don't want to talk to her lol. Been practicing a lot of Law of Attraction principles, and it really has turn things around for me. Right now, I can say that if she does want to come back to me I'd be happy, if she doesn't I'm still happy. Just hang in there y'all it does get better, just really take this time to focus on yourself. Don't worry about trying to get them back, because eventually they do by the time that happens you probably don't want them back!

I have a few stories that are still ongoing and some not so great reconciliations. 1) One of the girls that I had to be a sponsor for was going through a breakup with her ex at the time, they're both military and he broke up with her because of the distance. It took them a few months to reconcile, and they ended up getting engaged and now are happily married! They're both really young but happy. 2) A close friend of mine, I was actually with her during the breakup we were just getting ice-cream and she received a message through Twitter from her ex's, ex girlfriend's now ex-boyfriend (I know I was confused typing this) how he saw the messages between them, how they wanted to be with each other etc. Basically cheated on her, she lost it called him and confronted him. He basically apologized, begged and groveled for like a month and she took him back! The relationship worked for a few months, but eventually she realized that the trust wasn't there anymore. Broke it off, and she found someone that treated her right and they've been happily together since! So there's still a happy ending for her. I'm currently going through a breakup right now, and sticking to NC and who knows I might come back with my own story!

Hope I'm not too late to the party, but better late than never. Been in contact with the ex since the breakup, I did manage 3 days of NC then I caved. Those days are over! Day 1: I feel good, granted she's still on my mind but she's confused on how she feels about me right now. I'm going to give us space, get myself back into the gym like the rat I was before. I wish all of us luck I believe in all of us!