stephaniej

if u dont want to be with her then dont try any tricks ...just end it here and dont try anything i mean anything . just let it go.

This is what i read recently somewhere Love is like playing a piano First You must play by the Rules and you must forget the Rules and Play from the heart. Well ... what this had made me think is ...are there really ne rules that u need to follow just to be with someone who you are interested in ...if yes what are they.... please tell me ...

Chemistry to me is feeling attracted to someone even when you dont know them . like i met this guy who my parents thought could be a perfect partner for me . the first time i met him at a social function i felt nothing .everyone else liked him .they said he was good looking and all but i felt nothing . So i decided to give this another chance just to see if nething changes from my side . This time i met the guy alone and agin i fel nothing . i spoke to him for almost 3 hours and i was bored to death . i didnt like the way he looked or the way he dresses or the way he spoke or even what he spoke . if there is chemistry between 2 people no matter what is said or done becomes intersting.

had this guy am in love with at my work place in the 1st post made by me but what has happened now this guy did come to chat with me . but now all he keeps asking me every single day is what is happening regarding my wedding . i was fed up of answering the same question everyday (since nothing was really happening regarding marriage) and asked him bluntly "if it really mattered to him "and he said "no" to which i got really pissed (sinceright from day one this so called frind has been in terms of US)and tole him that " as and when i get married i would send him the wedding card" to which he said nothing .but has been constantly staring at me non stop and i have been ignoring him. i really like this guy .but dunno what to do. and now he has not attended work for the past 5 days . dunno what i should do .should i continue ignoring him. will he ever talk/chat with me again . what should i do if he comes to chat with me . should i b sweet or strict. Plllllz Advice

will definitely try tht .thanks

this is the 1st time this has happened and am in a fix.guess i hve alost the guy and i dunno y.it all started about 2 moths back.when this collouge of mine started chatting with me.he is one of the quite and shy kind of guys.we used to chat like how all normal friends do .and this went on for a couple of days when suddenly one day he proposed to me. and asked me to marry him.not knowing the seriousness of his talk i did not say anything.after all the conversation that day he told me it was all a joke and i should forget about it. even after that day we continued to chat and he kept asking me out .at that point of time ididnot actually knwo the guy and was scared to go out with him. recently we decided to have breakfast together but then again our work timigs changed and the plan did not work out. sinec the chatting between us has reduced,one of our common friends decided to go and speak to him. after our frnd spoke to him ,he started chatting again but not like before. and the next thing i did i knw is the biggest blunder of my life .i told him (as this friend of mine adviced me to ) tht my parents wanted me to get married .after this there has been no conversation between us. i really like this guy .dunno if there is a way of mending things.i knw i have made a lot of mistakes while dealing with this guy. plz tell me if there is a way of getting this guy back