Well here it goes.... I have had a few issues with the person i have been with for the last year and a half as anyone does...lately they got worse. There was a girl who likes him and she didd'nt want to ruin anything so she was only trying to be his friend but my friend turned against me and tried to hook my boyfriend and her up. It caused alot of drama and everyone fought. Soon I had requested my boyfrined not see either of these girls as it was just becoming very dramatic and harmful to the relationship. I called him up crying because one of them had said something and just a mess and he agreed to not see them. The very next night he spend the night at his best friends house WITH them there....we fought I told him he could see them but we both agreed on some limits ...them being girls we agreeed he would'nt go over there or be with them after 11pm (he has been unfaithful before) We agreed everyone would just leave me alone and he would try to tell me when he was going over there so i woudnt worry. Well they made a cartoon of me and put it on the web...a negitve one. He stopped speaking to them immeditly. after discovering it was only one of them. We agreed it was still ok to talk to the girl who liked him. So...he hangs out with her which is really hard on me...but i try to deal with it but every time he has gone over there he doenst get home until 12 or 1 am and i cant make him see that it really is a big deal because you know I'm trying to deal with him seeing her at all with his past and all im asking is he respect my requests...am i being to harsh? if not what can i do to get through to him? All he ever does is admit he was wrong say he diddnt think about it, apoligizes and does it agian. I know they have not done anything together yet but it still makes me feel uncomftorble.