Jsphsl4204

Wow dude... I really don't understand the harsh treatment, either...

Sometimes it does... I mean, half the time, I'm usually happy, and in a good mood, but the other half, I just can't stop thinking about the girl of my dreams... So, my answer is sometimes it does...

It's a big probablillty that you will... I'm good friends with all of my old girlfriend's and ex's... And naw, they don't avoid being friends because the chances of getting back together... And no, the only sure way of being close friends with a girl is to no enter a relationship... Just my input...

You should call her dude... She wouldn't have sent it to you if she didn't want you, and you alone to have it... So, trying to hook up with her again isn't a bad idea, I think you should do it...

Hmm... I've been in similiar situations, and I do know it hurts... There's one girl I feel the same way about, and she doesn't care, so I know it sucks... I would say the best thing for you to do is to just be friends with her again... Unless, you love her too much... Then, if you can, just never try to speak to her that much, because it will hurt to much thinking about her... That's really all the advice I have to give...

Yes, I do, but no, this has nothing to do with eating...

Contrary to popular beleif, yawning happens not only when you're tired, but when you might need oxygen... For say, straining yourself and not breathing properly while benching that extra 20 lbs., or running that extra mile...

It's quite normal, though it doesn't happen to everyone...

Dang, too late!

Thanks for the tips, guys. Here's another question: does anyone else start yawning when they are working out? If so, is this related to the eating thing, too?

Yes, I do, but no, this has nothing to do with eating...

Contrary to popular beleif, yawning happens not only when you're tired, but when you might need oxygen... For say, straining yourself and not breathing properly while benching that extra 20 lbs., or running that extra mile...

It's quite normal, though it doesn't happen to everyone...

look.. joe i am really sorry that i read that.. and i am sorry if your embarresed or anything.. but really it isnt that big of a deal.. and i SWEAR on the Bible that i will try REALLY hard not to cut again and you are so awesome! ok bye love you!

It's 'iight foo'!

Thanks to all... Hope it helps!

Of course join in! No need to ask . How is your training coming along then?

My training's great, thanks for asking...

You?

Hey ya'll! I was wondering, can I join this topic? Because, I do work out 3-4 times a week myself, not counting TaeKwonDo, baseball, track, or any other sport or physical activity I do. I really like working out, it's a great stress releiver and it makes my body feel great. And, it would be nice for a change to talk with some people besides my thirteen-year old friends, that have no clue what half the excercises, stretches, etc. I do are...

So...

Actually I'm having pains in my knee RIGHT now because of OSD. It hurts like hell. I have had it since 4th grade and now I'm in 9th...it sucks. The funny thing is now...I'm the most UN-athletic person, EVER! -haha- Yea, I know what you are going through and yes it sucks. big ones.

 

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Hmm, that's weird, the doc. told me I had it because of too much physical activity... (That's one of the reasons...)

And it does hurt, I just choose to ignore it or something when I'm working out and stuff like that... So yeah...

What you did was definitely right... People are going to be mad at you, given, but you shouldn't mislead her, only to break her heart worse in the end... So I think what you did was indeed right...

so what do i do?????

Just start talking to her yourself...

What I think you should do is just start talking to her. It's a basic start, just don't try to be anything you aren't, and, if she can't appreciate you for what you are, then it just wasn't meant to be...

That's only a start, of course...

If she does begin to notice you, begin talking more personal, getting to know her better, and build up the steps...

Then, you should begin to flirt... Just do a flirtatious move once, and if she flirts back, just keep flirting... By then, she'll probably start to notice you...

And finally, once you think you're ready, sleep on it for 2 - 3 days, and try to gather up the courage to tell her that you like her... Chances are, she'll start to think about you, and that's exactly what you want... You might even begin a possible relationship...

Hope my advice works! Later...

Hey you guys... I don't cut, but some of my friends do... And I'm here to introduce and idea that they must've found somewhere... But, what they do instead of cutting sometimes, (and hopefully all the time, sooner or later...) is that they'll take an ice cube and squeeze it, while it melts in their hand... The basic idea is to take away the risk of injury while satisfying their "goal"... I was just hoping to fill you guys in, so that if you do cut, that you might give it a try, because it's a lot better than cutting... Later...

jsphsl4204...i no you love to help...but i dont want ppl to get mad at me like you and trey...at ALL...and no offence...but i wanted help from sumone who cuts and is stoping...or has stoped after doing it for a while...because i feel like they have experiance...ok well thanx.

Um, hello? I wasn't mad at all... And I did used to cut... Think of some other excuses, of which would have sutied what you claim to have been "not me"...

hey...look im sry but i really need help about 5 minutes i go i cut...and about 3 hours ago and they are really noticible....omg i really need help but i dont want it from a profetional...i dont want my parents to think nething and i dont want to be on anti-depressants...i no this has nothing to do with this topic but you know sumthin is rong with my computer...so it wont let me do another topic for sum strange reason but neways...it wasnt my first time cutting but i want it to be my last...so i beg of you sooo much could you please help me...and could you talk to me on aim...b/c i want to stop...without getting caught...thanx.

I will gladly help you, but you can't call me a "b*star* that needs to mind his own G*d d***** business", like you did last time... I've been afraid to approache the subject with you since then... Please don't shove being a friend down my throat like you did last time... And I will...

My opinion on cutting is not a good one... I did it years ago, for about 6 months... I also used to drink, but that's beside the point... I got caught, and had to see a shrink, and since, I don't cut, and haven't anymore, but I can kind of relate to my friends... I mean, I have sympathy for them, and I wish they would stop, but they won't... Personally, I would try to help as much as I can, but, some of my friends hate the fact that I try to get involved... But, I wish cutting would stop, there are other ways to punish yourslef, and thinking about suicide is bad... One of my friends did it a few years ago, and that's one of the reasons I started... So what you do doesn't only affect yourself: But the others around you...

I don't know what to tell you, but my parents have done that for a few years... Maybe about 2 - 3, in fact... Usually I just do what they say and don't talk to them much, even though I love them to death... And, they usually let me go my separate way... I don't know how much longer it will be like this, but it's mostly because of their age, I know for sure. See, I'm adopted, and so my parents are 66 abd 62... I just think it's their age... I love them to death, and though i haven't approached them about it, I won't anyway... Even if they ask if something's wrong, I just flatly tell them "No.", and move on... The best thing you could do is just tread water for about six more months... As soon as I'm 18, I'm gonna be out in the Navy, so I dunno... Hopefully I won't snap until then... But your topic's a good idea... I don't know why I haven't brought it up yet...

Hmm... You should wait for her to call you. Chances are, a five month relationship won't end on these terms... And besides, when she wants you back bad enough, she'll call you... Just wait back, see how things go, and update us on the situation...

I am truly sorry to hear about your loss... You and your family will be in my prairs...

Nothing to say, other than those are pretty cool!

ok, "me" and "first move" just don't belong in the same sentence! lol

I would never make the first move! I'd be WAY too nervous!

But, yea, I think your right, I don't think he wants to kiss me until he's absolutly positve that I want to kiss him too.

 

thanks!

Well, that's absolutely normal, but you should just do it... There's no was a guy that you've dated for three months would't want a kiss... He's just too nervous, probably... It might take some courage, but it would be the best thing to do...

Well, I know about some people needing a cast, but, I need braces for mine... If it gets worse, the doctor said I would need a cast... But yeah, I'm a heavy track star, and we've got 4 people on the track team that have it... So yeah...