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thanks a lot thats what I needed to hear, and thats what I was expecting, I am not sure if I put that she was 2 years younger or not but she is actually 3 years younger, and your totally right about the chatrooms and stuff and that i would do something similar if I were in her parents shoes, thanks alot, um anyone else have anything to add, I just want to hear from everyone so I know what to do.

Ok so heres the deal, I am a big time romantic, and just a few years back I started dating online because I found that the girls around here are not my type, I have had about 8 or 9 girls that I have liked since the second grade, no I am not a player, most of the times there was a move or we lost contact, or it just didnt work out. So I am in this relationship with this girl and its a long distance relationship and she is 3 years younger than me, but her parents thought that I was about 2 years older than she was, and that I lived in the next town over, I was warned by my gf that if they ever found out I lived accross the US from her I would never be able to talk to her again. I have been friends with this girl for almost a year and have been in love with her for a couple of months, and after a while chatting online, we started chatting on the phone. Well she asked me to call on her borthday which is when her mom was home and so I called and her mom picked up and found out by my voice I was older than her daughter by more than 2 years and then later found out that I lived accross country, so she told me that it would never work out between me and her and that there could never be anything between us, and that I could never call her again. its been a little over a week and I havnt heard from her, but I know she is grounded and that she cant come on the computer, but I also know her mom is taking the computer to get it changed somehow and we both think that her mom is taking the computer to make it so I cant chat with her. So basically, I am loosing contact with her and I dont know what to do, maybe I need some advise or support, usually I am the one to give advice to others, but I dont know what to do now, I feel so bad and the biggest problem is I think she might be the one for me, in fact I know she is the one for me, and she knows I am the one for her, and we both want to marry each other, but right now we are playing the game of romeo and juliet, LOVE HURTS SOO MUCH, what do you think I should do after 8 or 9 gf and finally finding the right one.

hmm memj has a good point

Well from the sounds of it, it doesnt sound like it is too late for anything. Remember love is patient, and if you ever want a good relationship you will take it slow (not telling you that you have to but its my sugestion). I have found that real good relationships exist in people who started as friends first, and moved to being best friends then love. Its not too late for anything, next time you see him just say hey whats up, and talk like your his friend, you dont have to rush anything, and as for the other girls that told him that you are madly in love with him, forget about them, in fact they might have done you better by telling him. Now he knows that you have feelings for him, so he wont be surprised in the future if you pull any moves on him 8) . So anyways just keep cool about the whole thing and dont act to strange around him, try to get to know him more, but just act like your his friend. I hope I helped, this is my first post here, but I have been helping all of my friends with their love problems for years. Good luck and if you need more help just message me.