Malfunction91

Woah this thread is still going strong. 3 days into NC. I deactivated my Facebook account so I can focus on my work, my studies and I don't want find myself in a situation where my tummy will feel weird. In few days I'm starting my German lessons and I thought of starting to learn something about app developing and coding in general. Started playing football/soccer once again. However, I know i'm still early in the NC. Heck i started rather late after i begged for a month and 2 weeks of LC. In 4 months I'm going to feel different I know, but I just ordered a CD album for her B-day which is in April. Even now I don't expect no response. I intend to give the gift only if she's still single, which to be honest knowing her is highly unlikely. Stay strong people! .. NC works wonders.

Greetings! After couple of days of reading every single post here I first like to thank each and every one of you. It's obvious that the exes do miss us, doesn't matter if they are dumpers or dumpees. I came up with a conclusion that in order to have a truly SUCCESSFUL RECONCILIATION as a dumpee you must improve yourself. Break the shell, improve in every area of your life, get your attraction back and you will get your ex back. Nevertheless, even if you don't get her/him back, believe me you're on the right path. I won't argue on the topic of LC or NC. Personally I after a month of pleading and begging decided to put the ball down. She didn't say we will never be again together. She's younger 3 years than me, she(21 soon 22) i'm 24. We agreed on LC, but I now know I can't do that and I'll most likely cave in and try to avoid her as much as possible. Just get your life together. Embrace life. You'll feel better and they'll feel that too. This thread made me realize that I lost my identity in the relationship, i became a wuss. This is our 2nd break up, but then again the first one didn't felt like on. I can't share any success stories of which I know any in-depth details. However, most of the time the people either went on a long NC and after that moved on to LC. I've seen dumpees reach out and fulfilling their biggest wish. However, they all improved in one way or another. All of you who are in the age range of 18 to 22 don't feel bad. It's more likely they'll come back, but don't rely heavily on this. For the time being, i'll focus on my business, my studies and my well being. As a person with mommy issues I don't feel like dating anytime soon. Summary. -Accept the past and be happy that you've spent that time with a wonderful person -Focus on yourself and improve -Embrace life, live it not just survive -After 4-10 months if they're single or so reach out, but make sure you are prepared for what's to come. BE STRONG eNAs. P.S. My exgf is actually nicknamed Ena.