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Honestly, I'm a very jealous person, it stinks bad. But when I was with my former boyfriend, I used to worry about everything and eventhough he never actually cheated on me when we broke up for a while he started seeing a girl and had sex with her, she almost got pregnant all while he was still telling me he loved me. It hurt more than anything but over the years i learned to become friends with her and get to know her for who she is. So, since you already know her screen name, why don't you ask her what's going on? Sure, women lie but if you can get both sides of the story it's better...take it to the source, that's one good thing my mom taught me.

For all the girls and possibly guys out there (don't take this as if it's only for gay guys it's not) the best advice someone can give you after a break up or just when you're lonely, is to not be affraid that there's always someone there for you. Infact, the Bible says that God won't put you with someone he doesn't want you to be with. Eventhough this may take many times to get the right person, eventually you'll meet your "soul mate." But until then date Jesus. The best way to get to know yourself is through God, not through someone else. Running to a human and telling them all your problems just isn't worth it, they're not going to care and face it the advice we tend to give at times is just stupid, but some how, God always knows what to do. I was in Colorado for the last 9 days and it was the best experience I've had. We were doing a thing called the Colorado Caravan, and through this we learned how to be more confident and trust in the Lord. But honestly, the best lesson was on how when you date Jesus, not only are you giving yourself the time to meet the someone your'e supposed to be with but you're also giving yourself time to settle down and get to know you better along with the Lord and that's honestly the best thing you can do. If anyone has questions or comments on what I've just said feel freee to ask, it might take a while for me to get back to ya'll cause i'm leaving for BC tomorrow but i will try to get back to you. Thanks...**JESUS FREAK**

Thanks for all of your advice. To you Sebulous i looked at your picture it's rather nice. Loving the dark hair and green eyes thing .

thanks Phil. But honestly if you were one of them would you really want me to date the other one while I was dating you? Even if it was just a few dates?

Basically you'll just know. But if all else fails, ask, she'll more than likely think that you respect her if you ask her and sometimes a girl will think it's sweet that you asked. ---Don't kiss her if she's mad...lol...

I feel kind of stupid to even ask about something like this. After all I am 18 and I should know better and I should know how to handle my own life with little or no advice from others. Neway...I've been living in New York for 3 years now while attending the School of American Ballet..I haven't really gotten to know anyone because I tend to be shuned a lot. But, the other day I was asked out by one of my friends who also happens to be interested in dancing and theater. But, he's been my friend for so long I don't know if I could see him as anything else regardless of having a lot in common and him being very attractive. Yet, there's another guy I met that I'd be happy to date. He's fun, loving, kind, and caring. Basically all I'd want in a guy and a person I could actually see myself with. But, I don't think he's as interested in me as I am in him. I'd ask him out but I don't want to be shot down. If anyone has any advice I'd really appreciate it.