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this is a wonderful forum... i've been experiencing the same prob.. and the advise u ppl gave.. i do want to apply on myself to...

thanks... guess i shld move on then... its really hard....

how can i get my ex to come out with me... when she has a bf now... i've been trying but her bf is very attentive to this matter and warned her not to go out with me....

hi thanks for the advise..its sad to hear that my advise are, to move on and put aside my ex, and my current gf... actuallly did contemplate breaking up with my current gf as i dont intend to drag..we discussed the topic once and she decided to let me try to to love her her more...i guess my current gf loves me quite alot... and its really hard for me to bring it up to her coz she is really a sweet nice girl and i cant bear to break her heart... sigh.. im in a fix... as for my ex... many a times.. i thought i could move on.. yet in the end to find myself still tinking of her n wanting her back.... but like both of u shld... maybe i shld really just let go... shld i?... really is this the best way?... wat happens if my ex n her current bf breaks off suddenly?... thanks for the advises given still.. appreciated... feel better after hearing from u guys...

Had this girlfriend for 3 years...im 24.. shes 22 this year... we had a wonderful relationship... during those 3 years we did break up twice but got back together again..always shortly... so finally... the 3rd time... she left me... for another guy yet again... totally desvestated its been a year... tried moving on... still miss her badly... its not as if she's a bad person.. i know she loved me alot b4 too.. just that her heart changed... i still love her alot... i miss her so much... i found myself a new gf now... but still.. my brain.. my heart.. ponders over my ex much more then i can tink of my current gf... i know myself.. i really do want my ex back... what should i do... the situation is like this.. my ex and her current bf.. they r really in love n intends to get married... but i obviously know this guy has a bad past n i can't allow my ex to marry such a guy... during the 1st few months of break up.. she did miss me and she came looking for me.. but still she decided not to be wif me... she chose her current bf... a year down now.. we r contacting very much less n i m losing her almost completely.. its strange... she can totally ignore me and discern my presense for as long as she wants... but she can suddenly call me at the most unexpected times to ask me silly questions.. and everytime she calls me.. my brain will go "..oh gosh.. shes back... i still haf a chance" .... but then she will disappear again for a long while b4 looking up for me again... i really dont know if i shld wait for her... i feel that i dont love my current gf enough.. and my heart is with my ex still... i want her back.. tried no contact... tried being being good friend method..... works only for a while.. n she will not be bothered after some time.. i understands that her current bf doesnt like me too... he always bring me down.. but my ex will definitely stand up for me.. and they often quarrel bcoz she is protective of me... but yet.. she is more willing to listen to him to avoid me... n she really avoids me at times... whenever she calls me... it when he is out of town... and somehow.. she is always interested to know whats goin on in my life.... all these i hear from her best ger frnd.. which happens to be a good pal of mine too... pls tell me what to do.....??? All the way from Singapore......