Raiders79

Hey, well the thing that i would do is suggest having a "cast party" for all of the people that are in your musical theatre class. Maybe try to get your parents to allow you to host the party. Then she knows where you live, she meets you and gets to know quite a bit about you by your house and family and everything. I was in this EXACT situation except for the fact that i knew her before the class. and i had a cast party at my house (I know not everybody's house is like this) but we have a pool table, foosball table, darts, etc. and she ended up loving my house and we played doubles in foosball and she was on my team and that was the beginning of a beautiful friendship and even though she had to leave early (she had to work early the next morning) i felt very satisfied with what we had done together. I also got in A TON of flirting time... We had a tourney and we were the champions and everything just went right for me. This idea worked for me and I hope it will work for you should you decide to use the idea i've provided.

Well, there is this girl that i like (adam knows about this), and she was feelin kinda down on herself and she was tired and she asked me to sing her to sleep and play with her hair... she put her head in my lap and laid down accross the couch and i sang "I'll make love to you" by Boyz II Men cuz i knew the words and i also knew she loved that song... well she didnt go to sleep but she loved it a lot... she was in tears but not cuz it was good or anything but because it reminded her of her ex bf that she had to leave behind when she came to America... so that made things actually worse for her... but she commended me for trying and thanked me many times. the moral of the story is I guess they would like it but try to stay away from songs that would remind them of their ex because if it does remind them then you're not gonna get anywhere cuz they'll be thinkin about them and not you. THAT SUCKED CUZ I THOUGHT I WAS GETTIN BROWNIE POINTS AND NOT LOSING THEM

yea im kinda wishin that other people would post their opinions on this cuz i want other views... Maybe a female for once or something...

well ive been gettin closer and closer to the girl i like and ive found out that she really has the same problem i have except the guy that likes her isnt all over her but he does tell her how he feels ALL OF THE TIME and i dont think they've ever had a conversation that got passed that. she doesnt like it when he comes up to her and that is all he can talk about. (this guy is a druggie). anyway...she was the one that told me to just come out and tell the girls to get off of me but i said i didnt think that i could because they are good friends and i didnt want to hurt their feelings.Then she called me a coward (in a way we always say things like that to each other) and now she is in the same situation so im gonna talk to her about this and kinda do the same thing to her that she did to me. i hope that she doesnt get mad at me for bringin it up but our friendship has a lot to do with makin fun of each other in a jokin way but we always know... And just in case i always make it REALLY obvious that im kidding. as to reply to your last post... I'm not in this just to get into any relationship. I dont just want a girl, but rather i want a girl where the relationship has the potential to go somewhere and i dont think that the relationship i would have with girl 2 would last. she has had a few boyfriends while she was waiting for me like you said she would but they all lasted for like a week and no longer. i dont think she takes relationships seriously...

Well i can at least try to "do it for her" if i get a chance to date her. anyways i was talkin to her like not even 5 minutes ago and she was saying stuff like "you know you like it and dont lie" kinda like she was jealous.. i dunno but anyways the point is that if i did go out with her than i can at least say that i went for it and then maybe i would "do it for her" and if i dont even try then i know for sure that i wont do it for her... Its totally worth trying as for girl, lets call her #2...well she is new to our school and i guess i wouldnt mind goin out with her if i get shot down by girl #1(I AM GONNA GO FOR IT). As for the other one.. i used to like her in like 8th grade or something and we were best friends and always hung out and we were inseparable and stuff and i asked her out and she said no... many many times... well i wouldnt mind gettin a little revenge on this one and making her sweat. you know make her think shes gonna get a chance then shoot her down like a pheasant out of the air because she made me feel like i was broken into pieces. PAYBACKS ARE HELL!!!!!!!!!

hey fellas... I was once a shy guy and when this special someone came around my heart fluttered also... Then i gained courage enough to talk to her just one time and it totally paid off. We talked for a while and then we started to hang out more and more and now we are best friends.(i never asked her out because i cant take her anywhere because of the fact that im 15 and thus dont have a drivers license) and now i also have confidence enough to talk to any girl that i want to and am no longer shy and quiet... JUST TRY TO TALK TO HER ONCE!!!!!! IT WILL HELP YOUR COURAGE BIG TIME!!!!!!!!! It worked for me and it can work for you too...

heres the deal about #2 and #3, they're great people and they are beautiful but they, for some reason, just dont do it for me. However, girl #1 is perfect in my eyes and, even though she may not like me back yet, would probably be willing to go out with me because she is the type of girl that would give people the chance that they deserve. After the first couple of dates we would have she may like me... I still dont know what to do but I, as of now, am not really even considering going out with #2 or #3. thanks for that input though. Why is it that I am not interested in the beautiful, smart, etc. girls that I could have in heartbeat, but am interested in the same type of girls that i would have to work for? Does this have anything to do with the saying that says "You will always want what you cant have"? Also as far as the driving thing goes. I have plenty of driving experience (I have a school permit and drive every day and also of course drive my parents places when we are all going somewhere together) and could not speed hardly if i wanted to because i drive a 1996 Chevy S10 with a 4-cylinder engine (which, for those of you that dont know, is small) and it has a 5 speed manual transmission. it can get up to 105 but it takes a long time to get up there and im not stupid enough to think that the girl would be impressed by me speeding in my piece of crap truck. Also i dont make much money because im involved with about everything in school and thus dont have any time for a job except for the summer so im not gonna want to waste what little money i do make on a speeding ticket or wreckless driving ticket or anything...

I personally like shorter girls but i guess that is because i almost never even see a girl taller than me. (im 6"2)... i like the girls that are about 5"7' or so so that i dont have to bend down so far to kiss her but also i would date a girl that was 5" tall because the height doesnt really matter but if i did date someone that short i would sit down to kiss her or pick her up or somethin cuz that would really start to hurt the back after a while.

Im 15 years old and a sophomore in high school. There are 3 girls i need to talk about. Girl #1 is the girl that i like. she is from Bosnia and was adopted here in the U.S. She is everything that ive always wanted in a girlfriend plus a sexy accent!!!!! The only problem i have with her is that she doesnt feel the same way about me that i feel about her. Girls #2 and #3 both like me but i dont like them. I wouldnt have a problem with this if they wouldnt hang all over me like they do. For instance i live in a small town and am in a sport all year round, im in school plays, FFA, NHS, choir, basically everything you can be in during high school. We just had our Choir concert so we had a party the next day and could do whatever we wanted to and i stayed up late the night before and decided to try and sleep so i was layin down and then one of them came and layed on top of me, i felt kinda weirded out by this and she finally got up and then the other girl came over and asked me to scoot over so she could lay down beside me and i found no harm in that as long as she didnt try anything. she didnt but she did keep me awake the hole time and the girl that i like was thinkin why the heck is she hangin all over him and why doesnt he do anything about it. (i told the girl that i like how i felt and that i didnt like these girls that hang all over me and she tells me to tell them to get off of me and i know i should but im afraid of hurting them because they are my friends.) I really dont want to ask a girl out until i can drive because otherwise we really cant go anywhere and there would be no point. What do you think i should do? should i tell #2 and #3 to get off of me, considering that the school year is almost over and i probably wont see them for a while and also considering that i would definitely hurt their feelings? should i ask the girl #1 out? (she can drive but im very chivalrish and would feel odd having the girl drive) Also how would you tell them to get off of me and how would you ask the girl out if that is what you would do??????? PLEASE HELP...tell me what you think... THANKS

I agree that pick up lines dont usually work... however, they can spark a conversation if the girl is willing to "play along" Also i did use a pick up line i made up myself and it actually worked. This pick up line was something like this- "Hello there, I just couldnt help but notice that your eyes shine like diamonds in a field of snow" this amazingly worked and i didnt think it would but seriously this chick had the most amazing eyes i've seen in my life!!!!!

Im 15 years old and a sophomore in high school. There are 3 girls i need to talk about. Girl #1 is the girl that i like. she is from Bosnia and was adopted here in the U.S. She is everything that ive always wanted in a girlfriend plus a sexy accent!!!!! The only problem i have with her is that she doesnt feel the same way about me that i feel about her. Girls #2 and #3 both like me but i dont like them. I wouldnt have a problem with this if they wouldnt hang all over me like they do. For instance i live in a small town and am in a sport all year round, im in school plays, FFA, NHS, choir, basically everything you can be in during high school. We just had our Choir concert so we had a party the next day and could do whatever we wanted to and i stayed up late the night before and decided to try and sleep so i was layin down and then one of them came and layed on top of me, i felt kinda weirded out by this and she finally got up and then the other girl came over and asked me to scoot over so she could lay down beside me and i found no harm in that as long as she didnt try anything. she didnt but she did keep me awake the hole time and the girl that i like was thinkin why the heck is she hangin all over him and why doesnt he do anything about it. (i told the girl that i like how i felt and that i didnt like these girls that hang all over me and she tells me to tell them to get off of me and i know i should but im afraid of hurting them because they are my friends.) I really dont want to ask a girl out until i can drive because otherwise we really cant go anywhere and there would be no point. What do you think i should do? should i tell #2 and #3 to get off of me, considering that the school year is almost over and i probably wont see them for a while and also considering that i would definitely hurt their feelings? should i ask the girl #1 out? (she can drive but im very chivalrish and would feel odd having the girl drive) Also how would you tell them to get off of me and how would you ask the girl out if that is what you would do??????? PLEASE HELP...tell me what you think... THANKS