Hi !
I Could not understand, how to explain in gentle way, but i am trying my best. But to be frank, if u r a virgin , definitely it will hurt u. It is the part of life. But to get the thing u have to loose something. I will suggest u to practise the masturbation before the intercource. You can try ur fingures 1, than 2, then 3 slowly & slowly. It will give u the idea, wht happens after stimulation of clit & vigina.
While Intercource
Don't be in a hurry. Asked ur bf to be patient. Ask him to stimulate ur clit first, may be with his fingure or tongue & lips . Let the clit become enough wet & juicy then only allow him to stroke. Between intercource, again if u feel like hurting, again ask him to do the same, then again ask him to stroke.
Every human body is having a different behaviour. U have to take care of urself. If required talk to ur bf in clear sense. And pls don't be afraid of that. Any how u have to face that. Even if hurts 1st time, u have to make up ur mind for that. U will be learnig stroke after stroke.
Tricks
1] Don't allow him to insert directly.
2] Take a promise from him, that he will not make hurry
3] Don't allow his cock to get dry. just go on licking it
4] Frequently ask him to make ur clit wet & juicy. He will be happy to know that u like it.
5] for the first time don't do it from back, it will give more pain, just be straight.
6] Never forget that, he also expects the same from u, as u from him.
I hope this will help u a lot. Best of luck.
Take Care & Don't forget to give me the feedback.
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