Shy and dense guy in need of advise.

There's this girl at work I'm into. And I think she digs me but I'm dense when it comes to being able to tell when someone likes me. She's very friendly and flirtatious with me, and she's gone out of her way to be nice to me, i.e., rubbed my back when I had a stomachache and fetched me a pillow when I was trying to sleep on an uncomfortable sofa in the employee lounge. I want to ask her out, but I'm afraid that I'm getting my signals crossed. To make matters worse, I'm extremely shy and wouldn't know how to ask her out. Could she just be a kind soul with a flirtatious streak? Or does she like me? How can I tell if she's really interested in me? Any advise would be appreciated and thanks in advance to all who reply.

EASY!! Just ask her if she has a boyfriend. If she doesn't, ask her if she'd consider going out with you. If she say's yes that's great. If she say's no, take it like a man.

Wilted rose:

Hmmm... almost too easy. OK, I guess it's time to cowboy up and ask her out. I know for a fact she doesn't have a boyfriend. thanks for the advise!

Hi. First I would like to point out that she does work with you, so if you ask her out, she accepts and things go sour, be prepared. Second, yes of course she is interested. Coming from a woman, I would not touch no man I was not interested in. Go ahead and ask her out. The worst she can say is no. Good luck Tiger!

Mandy:

Thanks for the advise. I'm going to ask her out.