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    confusedgirly
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    'Getting a blowjob is not cheating'

    I've recently found out that some guys (small percentage I'd hope) don't consider getting a blow-job from another girl (while in a relationship) cheating.

    To me that seems like a warped, sick-in-the-head idea. Of course that's cheating!

    Does anyone have any idea why these guys would have this opinion?

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    It's true. I was involved with one once. They just simply think that anything other than intercourse is not cheating. I suspect that they realize deep down that it is because they will generally NOT tell their SO about it. I honestly think that this is more common than you realize.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dragon lady [Register to see the link]
    It's true. I was involved with one once. They just simply think that anything other than intercourse is not cheating. I suspect that they realize deep down that it is because they will generally NOT tell their SO about it. I honestly think that this is more common than you realize.
    do they think the same if their girl gets oral from another guy?

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    cheating must be redefined in each individual relationship. what is the couple OK with, both of them? if the girl thinks blowjobs = cheating, but the guy doesn't, it's still cheating! if they agree, then hey, woohoo.

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    Um.. because they refuse to held responsible for their decisions?

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    Quote Originally Posted by worriedgirl [Register to see the link]
    do they think the same if their girl gets oral from another guy?
    I highly doubt it.

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    Denial is not just a river in Egypt.

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    Since I know how it feels to be cheated on, I wouldn't consider any act of intimacy other than with the person I am with. I'm more of a one woman kind of guy and I hope to find a woman who feels the same.

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    HAHAHAHAHAHA. Nor is sucking other boobs. Also, If you only get one pump and blow your load, its not cheating either. Who makes this stuff up?

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    I've seen married girls with the same mentality...

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