cassandra Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 Just a general question Have you been in a situation where you need to choose between 2 people? And if so how did you decide? Link to comment
Myrddin Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 I don't think you can choose if you are romantically linked to both of them - you'll probably bounce from one to the other emotionally. The only way to be sure would be to break contact with both for a while. You'd soon know which was the one for you! Bit risky, I know, but at least you'd know for sure. Link to comment
punchy504 Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 I agree with the above poster, I also think when you don't know who you want to be with then you really don't want to be with either, you just don't want to be alone either. You should only be with someone when you are sure you don't want anyone else besides them. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 There are two options, I picked the one that was either more interested in me or the one that I was more interested in. Link to comment
cassandra Posted October 20, 2005 Author Share Posted October 20, 2005 I agree with the above poster, I also think when you don't know who you want to be with then you really don't want to be with either, you just don't want to be alone either. You should only be with someone when you are sure you don't want anyone else besides them. I don't care if I'm alone, right now I am thinking maybe it would save everyone alot of hurt and trouble. Link to comment
RayKay Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 Hmm, I am not *quite* sure what you mean by this. I have dated a couple guys casually at a time before (they knew I was dating, and they were too) but I never chose between them, as I did not get that feeling "I want HIM only" with either one. When I have been casually dating (ie just going out now and then with a guy) but met a guy who blew me off my feet, the choice was pretty easy. I think if you don't know WHOM to choose, then the answer really would be neither. Link to comment
jna35 Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 I agree with RayKay on this one. Link to comment
darkblue Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 I'm with RayKay, unless they're equally great guys. In that case you're in a pickle and just have to decide - or not choose either. Link to comment
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