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  1. I should have posted this link in here instead.... so posting it here too.... link removed With regards to Live and Learns comment... it's not about false hope... EVERY situation is different, but if stories helps people relax and adopt a 'what will be will be' attitude there is no harm...
  2. I hope I'll be adding to this success stories at some point.......... Congratulations to everyone else so far!! Cross fingers for me!!
  3. is it possible to get back together when as the dumpee you told the dumper to 'f-off out of my life' and then that you've deleted their numbers and not to get in touch unless it's work related (we work together, until I find a new job) he seemed really angry and I've heard nothing since I said all this last week.... finally respecting my wishes or angry or both? He'd been giving me mixed signals over a week....
  4. michelle21689;4656662 - do what I did and get someone to change your fb password for you so that you can't log on. I knew if I saw anything posted by him or his friends it would crush me... I've been 2 weeks without facebook and I think it really is for the best!x
  5. Reading this post was like reading something that I'd written! We were in a non commited relationship for 2 years, and a committed relationship for ALMOST (march 6th) a year.... we'd got to that point in the relationship, and mainly because I couldn't forget the past, that he hadn't wanted to commit, and saw other people.... and I felt jealous and insecure a lot.... so I decided to end it, BUT it was pretty mutual....Like you, I've asked for him back, not begged, but said i've changed already how I think we could work through the relationship issues together.... but he's having none of it. From him saying 2 weeks is too early we need to find each other and have some time and space.... it's now gone to OVER.... and it feels like it's over forever... though a few people tell me that I just need to give it time. Painfully, I have to see him at work, and he was away on a job last week so I haven't seen him since last tuesday, BUT he has been texting me, which when i pushed and pushed and pushed......Friday it got to the point where he told me he thinks the best thing is to move on and how we're not the right people for each other, but still asking how I can think differently now. However instead of going round and around, I decided to text him a 'let him go, with love' text.......... sadly he replied with much the same..... saying how my text had made him cry, how he'll always care, always remember the good times, blah blah and at the end thanked me for being 'wonderful'....... I just don't see how on earth we'll come back from this. I, like you, am working on myself!! Today I went to a workshop, which helped massively, especially as i was a mess this morning... however now i'm home, Im wondering what he's up to and getting nervous about tomorrow - thing is I'm not going to communicate any of this to him, and I've continued to be upbeat and confident at work. Just praying I can do it next week too! I've booked myself up every night next week, so that I'm busy busy busy.... and although it helps me remember who I was, and things, it DOESN'T make me stop missing or wanting him. I know he misses me, but he doesn't want me..... argh.... I guess I have to think positively and continue to work on myself BUT also work on getting him back..........
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