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  1. Wiseman2
    Great you're going on a date. She's in the kid in a candy store phase of divorce. Avoid anyone not yet finished with their old business. They're just looking for attention and validation at your expense.
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    Were Old Men Any Nicer? 🧓 PRONE 🛏️
  3. Wiseman2
    Try to believe her that she's stressed and busy with her school. You didn't mess up. Just stay on the radar and offer to visit, see each other, take her out whatever, but don't suffocate or second guess.
  4. Wiseman2
    That's the best approach. Document everything, put things in writing and try to keep it uncomplicated and make a clean break. Yeah court is ridiculous and drags things out.
  5. Wiseman2
    If she wants to get involved in much ado about nothing like break room nonsense, just rise above it. No need to go to her level.
  6. Wiseman2
    Avoid him. Please get involved in appropriate campus social activities to make friends and meet others. You can try getting a good profile and pics on some dating apps. Please see if there is counselling available on campus or privately for your poor self esteem and overly superficial evaluations.
  7. Wiseman2
    Sorry this happened. At least she was upfront. If she's in the throes of divorce,it seems more like you dodged a bullet. Please don't be her shoulder to cry on. Let her pay her therapist and attorney for that.
  8. Wiseman2
    Are you still in the same country? He doesn't seem interested in a relationship especially with the distance and his interests in others. Please try to move forward. Please try not to be so judgemental about your appearance and others. It's not your decision who he wants as a GF.
  9. Wiseman2
    So you want to try to work things out? It's much better to work things out with ower if you get your refund. You can't just drag people to court when there's no dispute.
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    Very Interested Readers Use Smartphones📱 SHAME🙈
  11. Wiseman2
    That's the best course of action. No it's not a sign.
  12. Wiseman2
    Try to focus solely on co-parenting. Enjoy the pics of the children but try to interpret her level of happiness.
  13. Wiseman2
    Is it worth the hassle if you are leaving anyway? You're not going to change her disposition. Spare yourself the grief. Leave on good terms.
  14. Wiseman2
    Sorry this is happening. It's a difficult decision. However between the cultural, financial and other incompatibilities, you may want to consider setting each other free. Add to this the long distance and the relationship may fall apart naturally. Please don't try to be friends. When are you moving out of state? Perhaps that would be a good time to cut your losses?
  15. Wiseman2
    Unfortunately it seems like an abrupt breakup. Definitely sort out the details of collecting your things at a mutually convenient agreed upon time. It's your responsibility to collect them from her place. Please do so neutrally, maybe bring a friend. Get the details of your deposit and in writing to get your refund. Do everything in writing and as politely as possible to just get it over with effectively.
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