BU 3rd July
9 weeks NIC and LC
21 days NC
Is it supposed to get easier?? I have been really down the last couple of days, and can't get my ex and our relationship out of my head. I am sure I am doing the right thing with NC, but I admit I'm disappointed that he hasn't tried to contact me, or one of my friends - to see how I am. I miss him so much, and really continue to hope that we can get back together one day. You see - I know he loves me, I know he doesn't want anyone else - it was his circumstances that led to him breaking up with me. Am I stupid to hope???
I spoke to one of my closest friends, (male) and he told me that I should give up and move on. He thinks that there is no chance we can get back together, and he doesn't want me to wait. His comments made me feel much worse - I appreciate his honesty, but he doesn't know my ex very well, so how can he be so sure?
PLEASE eNA friends - what do you all think????