I NEED YOUR OPINION ASAP

[Finzsoftie]

Hey everyone.

 

Well dilemma is always dilemma but I have a question that keeps reappearing in my mind. A quick run down on the story of what happened - my ex accused me of cheating on him, after he heard it from one of my vicious jealous older friends. And he doesnt want to believe me about my innocence, so he completely shut me out saying that he doesnt love me anymore, saying that we will never get back together. Actually to tell you the truth, i am not that upset anymore, i just want him to wake up and realise that what he did (by believing my friend and not me) was wrong. When does this stage of realisation regret kick it? What do you guys reckon? Does it ever? I am really wanting to know this. Or do you think that he will never realise this?

 

 

I would really really be interested in everyone's opinion! Thanks

[Anamarie89]

I don't want to burst any bubbles, but he might have wanted to break up with you anyway, and the 'cheating' just gave him an excuse. Does this sound like a possibilty or not?

 

Whatever, just my opinion.

[Jacob-love]

Yeah.. Anamarie89 might be right, but he may also jsut be an asshole - no wait.. a naive asshole.. Well all you can say is you understand and feel sorry for him, when he asks why, hit with all you got! "Well "Bill" I'm sorry for you because you say you love me, but the first word you get you believe someone over me, the person wtih whom you want to share your life, the person you've grown to love, and supposedly trust, I feel sorry for you because you will never have anyone, if you continue down the path your own that is. Well i'll have a good life and find someone who trusts me, so goodbye", or something to that extent, but either way, something's wrong with him. ok? - Jacob

[ELEONORA]

Clushai Tanya, zakroi cvoi rot i xvatit tyt pro menya gnat', y tebya net nikakix dokazatel'ctv chto ya tvoemy yrody chto to pro tebya ckazala, ya emy nichego pro cheating ne ckazala, eto on cam dobavil neboc' , tak chto otvali....vce znayt chto ya ne zavtictlivi cheloveck tak chto ne goni tyt pro menya ploxie vechi, chto ya jealou..loooool jealous of what? hahahah c b/f kotori na tebe cheating ili zhe ot b/f kotori tebya biet, ili zhe kotoromy protivno c toboi cpat'??, tak chto relax i octav' menya v pokoe, ponala, ne to ya i vce moi dryz'ya protix tebya podyt, pover mne.. tebya yzhe tyt pol Wellingtona nenavidet, za to chto ti cant treat your friends properly, i za to chto ti dyra takaya lezesh k araby etomy,ponala, vnachale naychic' kak k ludam otnocitca, kak ne portit' im zhizn' i kak ne pizdet' za ixnimi cpinami, a potom yzhe i obshaica, ya tebya ran'she ochen' lubila, no kogda yznala, kak ti pro menya govorila, i to chto TUMTUM tak ko mne bil iz za tebya ( tak kak ety info znala tol'ko ti) nechego bol'she dokazivat', togda ya ponala, chto ti mne ne podryga i nikogda ne bila i ya regret everyday spending with you, vrat' za moei cpinoi i zdelat' mne ctol'ko zla i vran'ya, ludi vcegda poluchayt po zacligam.. ne zabivai..i nacional'noct' ne i meet nikakogo znacheniya..ot tebya yzhe mnogo ludei otvernyloc'...MOZHET VREMYA NAD COBOI ZADYMAT"CA...a ya ved' vcegda v tebya verila, xot' mne ludi i govorili, no ya im dokazivala chtyo tanusha ne takaya chto ona klaccnaya, a teper' oni mne govorat' ny che..tvoya klaccnaya tanusha icportila tebe relationship, chto ti teper' ckazhesh, vot ya i poluchila za doverie, dyra...

no kak vcegda oshibalac'...well na oshibkax ychatca....

a naschet tvoego Ala...ya emy tol'ko ckazala chto ti c melburnom govorish c Davidom i VCE, tak chto ne goni na menya, ti zhe znaesh kak on vrat' mozhet, on procto xotel c toboi break up yzhe togda pover' mne, kogda on eto zaxotel mi c nim dazhe ne govorili v to vremya, tak chto zadymaica, eto tvoi problemi, a c toboi on break up, t.k. ti emy nadoela i on nashel koe kogo drygovo, tak kak cheloveka mozhno opredelit' po tomy kak on otnocitca k cvoim dryziyam, vot on eto i yvidel v tebe,...u cant use people when u need them u have to learn to respect them and treasure them..learn Tanya, tak kak ya learnt i vizhy kak mne shac xorosho i est' dryz'ya kotorie pridyt na pomosh, a kto k tebe pridet? ti zadymivalac'? apart of your parents....tak chto zabyd' pro menya forever, and plz never ever mention my name anywhere, ya nikogda v etot raz y tebya prosheniya ne poproshy i nikogda tebya bol'she ne proshy..ny mozhet i proshy a vot obshatca mne c toboi protivno da i nepriyatno...crazy zhe cluxi poidyt, vran'e, zavict' whatever ti k ludam icpitivaesh, xot' i prikidivaesh'ca ne vinnoi, anyway....GOOD LUCK v zhizni i c bydyshimi dryziyami, chaooooooo

P.S. Ne perezhivai, ya Dalii nichego ne ckazhy, ona tvoya podryga, kotoruy ti betrayed a lot, tak chto razberaitec' cami, ya ne bydy vmeshivat'ca, loooool esli konechno ti yzhe ei pro menya gadoctei ne ycpela nagovorit', v chem ya ne ydivluc' esli eto tak '