Haven't talked to her for a week

[Iwantittoend]

She broke up with me about a week ago. I never told her I was going no contact. I think she expected me to call her back as a friend but I haven't. She is going through some tough times and told me she needs to figure them out. SHe is a hard nosed stubborn person so I expect her to come back, but not for awhile. Is it my duty to call her and tell her that I'm going no contact right now?

[Lady Bugg]

Nope...she 'fired" you from your duty when she broke up with you. You are under NO obligation to tell her anything. In fact..the less, the better.

[Iwantittoend]

Nope...she 'fired" you from your duty when she broke up with you. You are under NO obligation to tell her anything. In fact..the less, the better.

 

Say she does call me, should I tell her then? Or should I just not answer all together?

[Stu147]

Nope...she 'fired" you from your duty when she broke up with you. You are under NO obligation to tell her anything. In fact..the less, the better.

 

I agree with Lady Bugg, you have no obligations to her anymore. And by telling her you are going no contact is kind of defeating the object. When she doesn't hear from you she will soon realise.

[SadOldMan]

I never said a word to my ex. I just packed up all my clothes and left. Not spoken to her or had any contact whatsoever for nearly 3 weeks now.

All I need is for someone to get her to pay for her half of the mortgage and I'll be happy(ish) ;-)