finittz Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 SEVENTEEN: You look at their profile constantly. SIXTEEN: When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago. FIFTEEN: You read their Texts and IMs Over and over again. FOURTEEN: You walk really slow when you're with them. THIRTEEN: You feel shy whenever they're around. ELEVEN: When you think about them, your heart beats faster but slower at the same time. TEN: You smile when you hear their voice. NINE: When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you, you just see him/her. EIGHT: You start listening to slow songs while thinking about them. SEVEN: They're all you think about. SIX: You get high just from their scent. FIVE: You realize you're always smiling when you're looking at them. FOUR: You would do anything for them, just to see them. THREE: While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time. TWO: You were so busy thinking about that person, you didnt notice number twelve was missing ONE: You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself. The above is the survey type thing I did. After I finished I realized I was still thinking about a friend a thought I was over a couple months back. We're always hanging around at school, so doing no contact is not an option. As well, when I first liked her I talked to her about it and after that things went pretty sour between us, now they have become normal again and I don't want to go through a sour period again by doing more talking so again thats not an option. How could one girl change my life so much ! any suggestions...for the moment all I can do is post on forums like these and keep it bottled inside of me.. Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 Never bother becoming obsessed over anyone. Ask her how she feels - just figure out what, if anything, you can get going with her, and if it works, excellent. if it doesn't, youll know! I spent the first 6 months of my dating life being obsessed from distances...since adopting the No Fuss Here I Come method, I've never looked back. It rocks. ;-) Link to comment
arwen Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 I spent the first 6 months of my dating life being obsessed from distances...since adopting the No Fuss Here I Come method, I've never looked back. It rocks. OMG lol... I think Antilove is very right, and certainly now you have the Big List of Self-Observations... don't you think it's time to make a move? Arwen Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 OMG? I'm shocking, arn't I? Assertive, maybe. But honestly - everyone's going to be dead in 100 years or so, nothing ultimately matters in such matters! Link to comment
gfein347 Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 What happened to number 12? I do agree with the other posters though that you should probably make a move if you're experiencing all of these. Link to comment
Blackhawk2009 Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 hmm interesting..maybe i should make a move on the girl i like lol Link to comment
NeverMore Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 The number 12 thing was funny. I didn't notice it was missing, lol. I've been in a relationship for quite a while now and I still feel that way. Link to comment
finittz Posted February 26, 2007 Author Share Posted February 26, 2007 Thank you everyone for your comments but obviously you didn't finish reading my post. I have already asked her out and told her I liked her in September. She said she didn't like me like that. AND another thing is that now she has a boyfriend! Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 I admit I didn't get the "now she has a boyfriend" detail. I'll get shot for saying this, but I'd tell her anyway. It's not an immoral act just to TELL her, providing she breaks up with him IF she reciprocates (people do change). Link to comment
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