WHY, why am i so afraid of commitment?

[FamousAmos]

whenever i like a girl, i feel like i want to be her boyfriend and bestfriend and what not but, when she likes me back, all i want to do is just hook up, and not have a relationship.

 

 

why am i so afraid of commitment?

 

this has occurred to me with about, ABOUT 9-10 girls.

and yes, ive had relationships in the past, long term ones

[J6hn]

You're 15. How many "long term" relationships have you had?

At this age you don't exactly have to commit, it's still the BEGINNING of the experimentation phase. It's not like you have to choose someone right now to marry.

Just have fun and when someone comes along who you CAN commit to, you'll know it, you wont be afraid and you'll embrace it.

[robowarrior]

Because you don't want to give up your single life and freedom.

[rusty_boi]

you are 15 so its not a huge issue yet so i wouldnt worry too much. My advice is just go on dates and have small relationships with girls, it sounds like its what you want and is perfectly healthy. The whole point of the teenage dating game is to give u skills for when you find our life partner so each relationship is meant to teach you something. So if you find a girl who like you and vice versa, just go out on a couple dates and see how it goes from there