Talking about sex!

[agualibre777]

Hi,

 

Last night I was with my sexual partner and when I was giving him a handjob, I asked him how did he like it? And he said, however I wanted, and I said, no there's got to be some way in particular you like it, and he said that if you like the person it doesn't matter how you touch it, and I said that I thought it was both. Anyways, he isn't a youngster or anything, but says he's never talked about sex in that way, what pleases or doesn't or so on...

 

Do people on here talk about that in detail or not?

[strawberry]

I do sometimes. Maybe its just a comfort thing and he needs time to get comfortable talking to you about that stuff. How long have you been sexual with each other?

[Beec]

Hi,

 

Last night I was with my sexual partner and when I was giving him a handjob, I asked him how did he like it? And he said, however I wanted, and I said, no there's got to be some way in particular you like it, and he said that if you like the person it doesn't matter how you touch it, and I said that I thought it was both. Anyways, he isn't a youngster or anything, but says he's never talked about sex in that way, what pleases or doesn't or so on...

 

Do people on here talk about that in detail or not?

 

Quite often no, people don't talk. But you should be able to tell what he likes absed on how he reacts.

[agualibre777]

He says that never in any of his relationships has he talked about sex!

 

I emailed him that song by Salt n' Peppa "let's talk about sex"

[HellFrost666]

All the time. We are always trying new stuff though, so not talking isn't an option. But we don't usually talk during like you guys were.

[rebeccaapple]

I really like being able to talk openly about sex with my boyfriend - I think it's important, but it did take a while before we were comfortable enough to talk as openly as we do now.

[amtjrtcet]

My b/f and I talk about sex, and what we like quite often. Usually right after we've had sex and we're laying in the bed together. I think that kind of communication is great if you have it....but like others have said, some people just don't talk about it.