The Bad man cometh.

[Spugly Fuglet]

Do you ever have the feeling that the dark side of you is on the move, that you can feel when its seeking to lash out and harm others.

 

I dont know why but may last few posts on ENA have not been at that core of the best, thay seem to be harsh and blunt.

 

I feel like that part of me a lock away wont out and its worrying me.

[the yang to the worlds yin]

Have you tried releasing it through working out, or some sort of activity?

 

And that part comes out in us all sometimes, we're human.

[Slacker]

If you notice it, and apparently you do notice it, then you can continue to keep it in check.... or at least thats my experience.

[Gecko]

Try playing a violent videogame? Listen to some metal? Laugh hysterically? Whack a cereal box with a cardboard tube?

 

That's what works for me.

[sweetheart21]

What do you mean by dark side? Do you mean anger, frustration, negativity? If thats what you mean figure out WHY your feeling these things. Is there something in your life making you feel like this?

[BellaDonna]

Here's one theory....I'm not saying it is the case with you but sometimes if we get really annoyed by a person and feel the urge to be harsh on them, it is because they may reflect an aspect of ourselves that we don't like.

 

 

Or it could be plain displaced frustration showing itself in this venue.

 

As others have asked, is there anything stressful that has been going on lately for you?

 

 

BellaDonna

[itsallgrand]

Oh yeah, know the feeling. There is a part of me that scares the daylights out of me. I've seen her in action before and it isn't good.

 

But Spug, you have yourself together. The way you present yourself here gives me a strong conviction that you would never do anything to actually hurt anyone else with purpose. You are too aware and grounded for that.

 

So...something must be eating you. If you wanna talk here, that's cool, we'll listen.

If you have another way to take a 'time out' then that might be good.

 

I hope you feel better soon!

[Spugly Fuglet]

Well I did as was said and Just joined a Gym, I know whats behind this its the fact my wifes having our 1st kid and shes at that stage where her harmones are all over the place, eating cravings, so its late night trips for me, she crying one moment and barking at me the next. Now I know its just part of her pregnancy, and we have talked about it, she blows her top and then crys saying sorry. No this means I have hold my mouth closed and remember at all times she dos not mean any of this.

 

Thats why my anger, frustration, negativity is leaking out in other places,

so! down the Gym and beat the pants out of a punch bag.

 

all togever now "Down at the Y.M.C.A."

[BellaDonna]

Well that explains it!!!!!

 

Congratualtions by the way!

 

 

BellaDonna

[Spugly Fuglet]

thanks Bella

[itsallgrand]

Oh wow, congrats 'daddy'. How cool is that!

 

Hmm...looking...I know benty is a dad, and other ones here...they'd probably get where you are coming from.

 

Man, you are going to be so ripped by the time the little one comes along!

[Spugly Fuglet]

"you are going to be so ripped"

 

NOW! you tell me its a bit late now

[LONESOUL]

Congrat's Spugly!! Hang in there~! (give the punch bag h*ll)

[TheRedQueen]

Do you ever have the feeling that the dark side of you is on the move, that you can feel when its seeking to lash out and harm others.

 

I dont know why but may last few posts on ENA have not been at that core of the best, thay seem to be harsh and blunt.

 

I feel like that part of me a lock away wont out and its worrying me.

Though I certainly can't speak for others, I for one like it when Mr. Fuglet is naughty!!!

[Spugly Fuglet]

Though I certainly can't speak for others, I for one like it when Mr. Fuglet is naughty!!!

 

 

bad red bad.