this is the man she wanted but now turns down

[whenamansloveisreal]

ok....makes no sense

 

u want a strong man, full of confidence and pride

 

a man that gets u and understand what a healthy relationship is about

 

that can bring u to multiples by touching your lower back

 

that treats u as an equal, loves your daughter

 

can provide for you

 

ensures you are you own woman, have your own space

 

takes you out and shows you how great u are

 

admits mistakes and did the work

 

basically, everything u wanted back then

 

and now refuse

 

makes no sense

 

that's ok

 

take care

[Beec]

Often, pople think they want something, then when they get it realize that was not what they wanted at all.

 

Hang in there.

[Day_Walker]

When a woman tells me the things she wants in a guy I listen but I dont believe a word of it. I say that actions speak louder than words, I take more of an interest in the type of guy she dates as opposed to what she says she wants.

[whenamansloveisreal]

well the days of being in limbo are done for me

 

for months i've had this all backwards - i just released it after my burpday. see i've been reaching out for this woman, even though she should be the one, and i've heard nothing and then it hit me - i looked at both sides: i have a great job [83k], new house with small mortgage, no debt, regained health and determination regarding add-program, family and friends that care, supportive ex wife and loving healthy daughter, self respect and self love, creative, etc.

she has - huge debt, health issues [many], no communication skills, police reports, etc.

 

and i've been the one reaching out? i don't see what she really offers and she basically told yes then no - repeat - so why am i interested in someone that doesn't care and has no interest in a relationship and treats me like i am the one that will suffer - i have moved on.

[Ripples]

whenamansloveisreal

 

Sorry for sounding crude here but men are prone to think with the wrong head sometimes. Been there, done that. Like you I assessed the reality of the situation and concluded I had everything to lose and she had everything to gain. You can only reach out for so long and then you must move on.