dnozzle Posted December 15, 2006 Share Posted December 15, 2006 Well, it has been 1 week since last contact. She asked for NC 3 weeks ago, and I emailed her short note a week ago, to which she responded and thanked me for my patience. I responded to hers, and she left me hanging since then with no reply. I've learned that LC sucks. Learned that the hard way in fact. I've had days where I actually did not expect to hear from her, and those were the first peaceful days I have known since this happened. I will not screw that up again by contacting her. If she gets well and decides she wants to try this again, I will hear her out and see what happens. But I am no longer expecting to hear from her. I won't torture myself with that anymore. It isn't worth it. I used to think that she was worth it, but I am starting to wonder now. Link to comment
papalazarou Posted December 15, 2006 Share Posted December 15, 2006 I suppose that is what NC does. Gives you time to heal and gather your thoughts. Do you REALLY REALLY want them back? Good luck dnozzle with whatever the outcome mate. Link to comment
dnozzle Posted December 15, 2006 Author Share Posted December 15, 2006 Stragely, that is one question I am completely unconflicted about. YES I do want her back. I just don't know if that will ever happen, and not knowing is driving me crazy. I really do appreciate her trying to spare me this by just breaking up with me. I think she knew this uncertainty would be harder for me to deal with than an outright breakup. Anyway, I made it through the day without contacting her, even though I buried a friend of mine today and that really made me want to hear her voice more than ever. Link to comment
amuse Posted December 15, 2006 Share Posted December 15, 2006 She just might have more to deal with then she can handle - that is why the NC. Give her the space and time. And you work on you. Link to comment
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