Which is the best way

[importracer420]

ok..this girl i am pretty sure i am in love with, has a boyfriend..which is taking awhile but im starting to come to accept it...but is it best to be her best friend, to where she comes to u for advice when she needs it and when they hopefully break up, lol, comfort her and be there for her. then time it an show ur feelings for her and ask her out...or is it best to just kinda be friends, but not real close friends, and then ask her out when the time is right...thanks again for ur advice

[iamlearning]

I recommend being her best friend, out of personal experience it has worked for me.. Acctually the girl was still going out with her boyfriend, when she told me she was in love with me *Shrugs* 0X

[Yahko]

Wasup Racer !

 

As Learning said , be her best of the best friends. Let her cry on your shoulder how much she want. Be next to her more as you can. So she would see that you care about her and you are real gentelman. And [This is the best part!] when she would feel lonely and the bed is cold, she would go to you and say "Take me!"

 

Trust me, the best time to get ladys heart is after she break up with her BF, and you are "replaceing" the ex ......

 

Good Luck.......^_^

[Dreng3333]

what they said

[SnowYs]

Speaking from someone who just got out of a relationship where I was an affairee - wait. If its meant to be, it will be eventually. My new thought is, if they are really unhappy in the relationship they will leave.

[fcjcoms]

I think they are wrong about being her best friend. Friends yes Best Friend no. It happened to me. I became her friend then she wouldnt go out with me cause she didnt want to ruin our friendship