is she just messing me around, or does she like me?

[nhenzie]

So there's a girl i work with that i'm crazy about, I'd love to ask her out, but i can't tell if she's genuinely flirting with me or flirting for the fun of it. We get a long really well at work and i've hung out with her and a cpl of her friends a few times we had a great time, i was making her laugh, i got along with her friends famously yadda yadda yadda; but then a cpl days ago at work, i was gonna ask her if she wanted to go out for dinner and to see a movie, when i overhear a conversation she's having about how she hates men and how they're all jerks (she had a really bad breakup with her last boyfriend, so i can kind of understand).

We're goin out with a cpl of her friends on friday and saturday night and i was thinking about asking her to dinner either night (for next weekend or some time in the middle of the week). Should i maybe ask her friends if she's over her last bf/ready to start dating again, or should i just ask her myself?

 

I'm also kind of intimidated by her cause she seems to be quite experienced with dating (i don't mean she gets around, i jsut mean she's been in more relationships then i have) and to be completely honest if i were to start dating her she'd be my first, not only relationship wise, but sexually aswell(i'm a virgin). Should i even be worried about that or should i just "go with the flow" ?

 

Thanks,

 

Nick

[Dating Coach]

Don't ask her friends anything, you would be correct if you followed your first thought and asked her out to dinner or something else. Also read this:

 

 

Not saying it applies to you, but I am sure it will help.

 

Good luck!

[Haven]

If you ask her friends, they're definitely going to tell her about it. Just ask her out yourself.

[nhenzie]

to be honest the only thing i'm really worried/concerned about is her experience and my lack thereof.

[Siriana]

you have to learn once - why not now!

[Kevin T]

Would it be better if you had banged an entire sorority in one night? Most women... ahh, what the hell do I know about what most women want...?

 

I was gonna say your "lack of experience" is by no means a negative thing, unless you make it one, but...