GF closed off. Seems that she want to control the relationship

[Skippy]

Hi all, it has been sometime.

I suppose that i am the women in this particular situation. I am complainting that my GF doesnt open up.

How do you get a woman that is closed off to express herself?

She finds talking about friends and general life mundane so she doesnt enjoy talkig about it. I am finding it harder and harder having things to talk to her about. It is the small talk that means so much to me but boring to her.

Trying to have her talk about her past is nearly impossible! having her talk about the future is impossible! but yet she says loves me, we talked about ending the relationship and it is she that didnt want to do it.

What am i not seeing?? what am i doing wrong?

 

If i am not doing anything wrong, how do i improve this situation?

[agent1607307371]

Maybe there is nothing wrong.

 

Maybe you are just incompatible.

 

In the title you say it seems that she is using this in an attempt to control the relationship - how exactly do you mean?

 

And I don't see how that makes you the woman... being in a relationship is a 50/50 split, one person should not hold all the power.