fox_91 Posted October 2, 2006 Share Posted October 2, 2006 Just went on a date with someone, and it seemed to go really well. We had a long lunch where we talked a lot to get to know each other, we then went and played some raquetball, and seemed to have fun there as well. Next we went and just hung out on a pier and just sat close. I held her arm after that. We finished with a pool game where we seemed to enjoy each other. I took her back to the car and got 2 sets of kisses. and we seemed to really hit it off. Main issue is that she doesn't have online chatting software, and works differing hours and at odd times. I tried to call today (day after date) to talk a little and to plan another, but couldn't get ahold of her, left her a message but don't know. Am I at her will to call back now? or can I try to reach her again? Usualy the people have some chatting software so I can keep in touch, but this is kinda old fashioned so I'm looking for a little guidance on how to proceed. thx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vermilion Posted October 2, 2006 Share Posted October 2, 2006 Give her a few days. Maybe she's busy or doesn't want to seem too desperate. Sounds like the date went well so I doubt she's not interested in going out again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted October 2, 2006 Share Posted October 2, 2006 i hate chatting software. I only use it with people who live out of the country. I rarely chat online and refuse to give it out to anymore people than absolutely necessary. anyways, give her a call if you don't hear from her in a few days. Ask her out for a concrete day and time. if she likes you, I'm sure she won't let you slip away too easily. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fox_91 Posted October 2, 2006 Author Share Posted October 2, 2006 is it a bad thing to send a txt just to say hi and wish a good day? or is it more of a no talking till she talks back? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heartshock Posted October 2, 2006 Share Posted October 2, 2006 Hi fox 91 Ouote "Or is it more of a no talking till she talks back?" Yes - I think it be advisable to cool your jets, Fox 91. No need to send a text just yet. Be cool, get busy with other things and let a few days go by. Unfortunately, you can't force this situation into being and the more you try, the less likely you are to succeed. Good luck and I hope you hear from her soon HEARTSHOCK Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heloladies21 Posted October 2, 2006 Share Posted October 2, 2006 No need to be so strict. Let her give you a ring back, but if she doesn't, feel free to call again. You two aren't in a relationship yet so can't expect anything out of her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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