I'm not sure how to proceed.

[tomservo]

This girl and I have been friends for about three months now. We've gone out a few times and I really like her, but I'm not sure where it's going. We talked on the phone the other night and she said that we should get together next week and do something. I would really like to kind of take things to the "next level" with her but I'm incredibly shy. We haven't kissed or even held hands or anything like that. There's been very little physical contact between us. Besides hugging. She's a really big "hug" person.

 

Being incredibly inexperienced, I'm not really sure what to do next. Should I try to just ease into the touching part? I'm not talking about anything sexual. Just touching her arm, or putting my hand on her back while we walk, etc. This is so lame. But I could really use some help.

[Ipso Fracto Man]

Don't force it, just go with the flow. When she gets tired of you not kissing her, she'll let you know somehow.

[kuhl282000]

Hello

 

I suggest you just relax, you are talking about different levels and I'm not sure we can even define what that is at this stage of the game.

 

I suggest you ask her to a movie and just go have some fun and see where it takes you. And that is a great place to start holding hands.

And don't forget to buy some popcorn......

 

And shy is no excuse for not asking someone out........

 

Just pick up the cell, and ask her out, you might be surprized

 

Good Luck

Kuhl