paulapalooza Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 To make a long story short, my ex and I broke up a couple of weeks ago. This past weekend, I saw his best friends at a bar and they insist on still being close, and for things not to be weird. I got invited to a party by one of his friends on Friday and declined because I know that my ex would be there. It's still too soon for me to be "friends" with him. I'm not quite sure what to think though. If his friends think that our breakup was so unexpected, yet they know that we're not together anymore, why are they still inviting me out? I kinda feel like they feel obligated or something. Then again, they know that I'm more than likely to decline. Link to comment
NR498E Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 There inviting you out because they are trying to nail you.Sorry I have to be so blunt but that is the truth.I've seen it a thousand time's. Link to comment
motog Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 stay clear mate i agree with the last post . seen it all before. stay safe Link to comment
paulapalooza Posted September 12, 2006 Author Share Posted September 12, 2006 Holy crap really? Am I that naive? Ugh! How disgusting! Is that some kind of sick joke among friends? Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 wow! guys are you serious? I was just thinking they were trying to make you feel better, or didn't want to act like you were a pariah now that you and your ex broke up. hm... maybe they are interested in snatching you up. they did all tell you what a great girl you were Link to comment
paulapalooza Posted September 13, 2006 Author Share Posted September 13, 2006 That totally trips me out. I had no clue. On the one hand, I totally thought his friends were just being nice, then on the other hand, I had no clue. Crazy. Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 are you interested in any of them? Link to comment
paulapalooza Posted September 13, 2006 Author Share Posted September 13, 2006 Not at all. If they're genuinely concerned about my feelings, then I think that they're the sweetest guys in the world. Clearly I wasn't a bad person if they still want to continue a relationship with me. But, if there are alterior motives, I'm not really sure of the quality of their character. Link to comment
motog Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 hey i may be wrong but speaking as a guy and this is good advice there are people out ther who see an opportunity .its amazing how many male "friends my ex has now who are "there for her" use your head. stay safe Link to comment
NR498E Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 Trust me there are altieor motive's behind them asking you out to do "stuff". Like I've said, I've seen alot of this and the girl's are alway's nieve to it. So don't feel bad. The girl's always say "Oh there just being nice" yea there being nice alright.They have to be. Link to comment
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