Healing

[renaissancewoman101]

Today marks one year of my breakup from my ex. It is amazing how far I have come since then. I moved 2000 miles away from the Midwest out to CA. I started a new life, went back to school to finish out my grad degree, am in counseling, on some anti-anxiety meds and dropped my ex-best friend out of my life.

 

Life is good. I am still here on ENA and have made a lot of friends. This place has done me a lot of good. I am still healing and trying to put parts of my life back together.

 

Do I miss my ex? No, not anymore. I still think about him sometimes and wonder how he's doing. I do miss being in a relationship, having someone care about me. I miss the affection and closeness that comes with a relationship. That stuff I miss a lot because I am lonely a lot nowadays.

 

Hopefully I will find a bf one of these days. But I am still humming along.

[Relationship Coach]

Congrats RW! 3 years ago today my divorce was finalized!

 

RC

[joyce1412]

you sound like you've completely revamped your life. well done.

[renaissancewoman101]

I've revamped my life but still a long way to go. Life is full of challenges and surprises.

[summerday]

wow, i'm so happy for you. wish one day i'll get there too

[Pikey1972]

Good for you, renaissancewoman - keep up the good work!

 

Also RC, hope you're doing well 3 years on!

[blemished]

You have a lot to be proud of! You took something potentially paralyzing and turned it into a growing experience. Way to go! You will find that b/f you when you least expect it. Keep up the good work.

[Relax]

That's what I'm talking about, you transformed your pain in to something constractive.

 

You see, emotions have energy, you can transform the same energy from feeling sad into feeling happy and successful.