i dont know how to tell him

[bebecole]

me and my current b/f have been together for a few months now..

Im going into the coastguard at the end of the year after i finish my last semester in school.

ive planned this before we even got together, but the problem is he is in the military right now as well.. im scared once i tell him hes not gona wana be with me.. i was holding out to tell him for a while, but now that i know im def. leaving i dont know how to tell him...

[annie24]

just tell him, like you told us.

 

see what he says - you never know - he may want to stay together.

[Tigris]

I agree with Annie just tell him like you've told us.

 

If he asks why you haven't mentioned it before just say that you thought it was better to wait until you found out you'd got a place.

[Meow18]

You need to be open and honest with him. I know it's hard and scary to think about what might come of it. But this is what you have wanted for yourself, and you need to do it for yourself.