XignZign Posted September 1, 2006 Share Posted September 1, 2006 Ok quick question guys, have I done th right thing? I recently met a girl, we got on great and are starting to date. The other night she had dinner at mine and we watched a film, she noticed a photograph of one of my best female friends who moved to pakistan, who i no longer see and started asking question. I explained and thought nothing on it, she mentioned it again later in the evening, and I told her the whole story. This morning I started worrying she might have thought the girl in the photograph was a girlfriend and I was just after her for something dodgey. Today on the phone I told her my concern she sounded happy I said it and said I was being "a little paranoid, but the thought had beifly crossed her mind". Basically my question is have I done the right thing by explaining this to her, or will she think I'm a bit OTT, at the time it felt the right thing to do, but now I'm concerned. Thoughts please, ladies and gents. Link to comment
Meow18 Posted September 1, 2006 Share Posted September 1, 2006 I would say not to worry about it. You felt like it would help to let her know that your friend was not a girlfriend. Chances are it doesn't really matter, so don't let it worry you so much. Link to comment
HealingHandsWarmHeart Posted September 1, 2006 Share Posted September 1, 2006 I think you did the right thing, it shows that you are thoughtful and thought of how it made HER feel...i think that was very nice. Link to comment
XignZign Posted September 1, 2006 Author Share Posted September 1, 2006 Wow thanks guys! I just thought if it's been the other way round I would have been wondering. I'm now sure I done the right thing in mentioning it to her, At the start of the relationship you never wanna come accross as rushing or being obsessed, that was my concern. Thank you guys. Link to comment
Meow18 Posted September 1, 2006 Share Posted September 1, 2006 I don't think you sound obsessed or anything bad. If anything she's probably relieved that you don't still have a picture of an ex up! So, don't worry about it, I'm sure she's not thinking anything bad about you or what happened. Link to comment
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