Realy cant stop thinking about her

[Bluesteel705]

My girlfriend, after keeping me hanging for a week, told me that she wanted to be with someone else, a waiter she met on holiday But I cant stop thinking about her, its really doing my head in, I think about her being with this guy and it just makes me feel physicaly sick. Just knowing that I'll probaby never speak to her again is hard, I was really happy with her, and she seemed to be too, till she went on holiday. It wouldnt be so bad, but I see her every morning at work.

[Krosis]

That's life my friend. Relationships come, and end. I'm sorry you had to go through a breakup. And I'm sorry that she dumped you for another guy. If there is anything I can do, please just say the words.

[Bluesteel705]

That's life my friend. Relationships come, and end. I'm sorry you had to go through a breakup. And I'm sorry that she dumped you for another guy. If there is anything I can do, please just say the words.

 

Thankyou, its just nice to know someone is listening.

[hulk7280]

the best revenge is to be successful and move on... you can almost use it to drive you in life turn a negative into positive... then when they come running back you can tell them how they missed the boat

[Krosis]

the best revenge is to be successful and move on... you can almost use it to drive you in life turn a negative into positive... then when they come running back you can tell them how they missed the boat

 

Yes, but if you were to do that, then you most likely never loved them in the first place.

[Bluesteel705]

But the thing is, I'd take her back in an instant

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

the best revenge is to be successful and move on... you can almost use it to drive you in life turn a negative into positive... then when they come running back you can tell them how they missed the boat

 

That's a good point.

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

But the thing is, I'd take her back in an instant

 

If she did come running back, I'd at least make her work for it if I were you. She can't just be dumping you everytime she meets some hot waiter-guy...

[Bluesteel705]

I know, she really had me fooled though, I would never in a million years have thought she was that type

[jmantra]

why would you take her back after she ditched you like that? She'll probably do the same thing with the waiter. This girl is scum in my book.

[danman4968]

the best revenge is to be successful and move on... you can almost use it to drive you in life turn a negative into positive... then when they come running back you can tell them how they missed the boat

 

Ive noticed a pattern in most of the threads on ENA, the dumpers often like, or even try to keep the dumpee around. And it feels so great when you learn first hand that moving on and starting to feel better gets to them better than anything else you could do. Not only does it bother him/her it gives you motivation to keep trucking.