Riggz41510 Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 I know ladies deal with the same issue.. But I'm just wondering..How do you deal with the blow to your ego if your girl/wife left you for another guy? Then too top it off he clearly has more financial security than you.. Has anyone experienced this and how did you deal with it? Link to comment
PRSOV Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 It's their loss and I'll find someone better Link to comment
friscodj Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 I've not been in this situation specifically but I would say this... Think of all of her shortcomings, things that really pissed you off about her. Then think that this is all on this other guy's shoulders now and that he will eventually get sick and tired of these things because he won't love her as much as you did... Link to comment
Dako Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 In my case he didn't even have a buck. It was devastating to have a dimwit penniless alcoholic steal my woman. I'd have preferred to be aced out by a real winner. I soon became a multidrug dependant mess. Ahh, the good times... Link to comment
friscodj Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Also believe in Karma dude. Believe that people will get what they deserve whether you see it happen or not. And that goes for you too...you're a good guy and it would be a dam travesty for the universe to deny you and a beautiful woman of a loving relationship together... Link to comment
shamus Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 i agree with friscodj... karma and let the new guy deal with my ex and all her nuttiness Link to comment
MacGyverRI Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Karma??? My Karma ran over my Dogma, sheesh, what a mess that was... If someone leaves you then you didn't have them in the 1st place, they were just shopping. Link to comment
PRSOV Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 I don't know about the whole karma thing... it depends how sticky the break up might have been. You can't blame someone because their feelings change, sometimes it's the individual to blame. Wish them luck, but think about the things that are negative. You'll get there. Link to comment
friscodj Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 I don't know about the whole karma thing... it depends how sticky the break up might have been. You can't blame someone because their feelings change, sometimes it's the individual to blame. Karma works both ways, I really believe that. Did you treat her well? Did you do your best? Then you've got good things coming your way at some time in one way or another... Link to comment
joyce1412 Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 But I'm just wondering..How do you deal with the blow to your ego if your girl/wife left you for another guy? Then too top it off he clearly has more financial security than you.. Has anyone experienced this and how did you deal with it? sorry, i'm not one of the guys, but if he's got you in the financial category that just means you have something on him. could be looks, could be personality, could be intelligence, could be anything. what are the things that stand out about you and that you think are very difficult to find in other men?...well, it's probably that. Link to comment
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