KissMe_KillMe Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 me and my boyfriend recently made a pact to see if we can go 30 days without having sex or masterbation... it was my idea and he agreed to ty it.. unfortunitly now that i made it i dont know what i was thinking.. but i am willing to try to actually go through with this.. so i was wondering what i can do to keep my mind off of it.. with or without him around me? Link to comment
sumguy Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 One of the fastest ways I know to kill sexual appetite is to read the bible, or go to church... But I guess the easiest way would be to channel the pent up energy into something else, exercise might be an idea. And for the love of god, don't think of it as "Forbidden" or anything like that, you'll just find it all the more tempting... =P Link to comment
Blinking101 Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 Wow that sounds like its going to be hard. I guess fight the urge and don't give in! Link to comment
neva_black_n_white Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 lol.. all i can say is let the power be with you! .. we wouldnt want him beating you now would we? lol. keep that in mind play scrabble.. but hope the words, sex, orgasm, pleasure.. or anything along those lines DONT come up Link to comment
bhzmafia Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 so if you dont really want to do it... why do it? Link to comment
KissMe_KillMe Posted August 6, 2006 Author Share Posted August 6, 2006 i want him to think i can go without sex... and ye si do want to beat him... i want him to cave dammit!!! Link to comment
PRSOV Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 Why do you want him to know you can't go without sex? There's nothing wrong with sex... why not just spend the next few times you are together being intimate - kissing, cuddling... holding each other. Actually it would be interesting if you could keep a diary about that kind of thing, you will slowly go insane hehe! Man I don't think I could go a day doing that... Good luck! PR Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 I think your boyfriend has watched too much Seinfeld (I seem to recall an episode like this). That was a TV program, this is real life. I am not quite sure what this is trying to prove but it really is some kind of game which has no place in a healthy relationship. I would tell him you are not interested in playing this kind of childish game. If you are in a healthy relationship, there is nothing wrong with wanting sex. Relationship or no relationship, there is nothing wrong with masturbating. To make a pact not to have it for 30 days just to prove whatever, is ridiculous. Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 I'm openminded to some extent, but I agree with Crazyaboutdogs. It does seem a little stupid. Due to a family holiday then two parties two consecutive nights after I get back, I won't be able to see my boyfriend for 10 days. Bearing in mind we normally have sex 6+ times a week at the moment, it's going to be a bit of a killer...why bring it on yourself?? Link to comment
Majoraslayer Posted August 6, 2006 Share Posted August 6, 2006 There's nothing wrong with playing a little game like this, and for those who think its stupid to play it....just imagine the amazing sex they'll have when its over. Actually I saw this in a movie; "40 Days And 40 Nights" I believe was the title. It was a really good movie and I don't think I could make it. Why be so addicted to sex that you think you can't live without it? Have fun with life; play games, compete. There's nothing wrong with a little competition from time to time. Good luck holding out! Link to comment
Ians Mommy Posted August 7, 2006 Share Posted August 7, 2006 I'm definitely scared right now. First off, the thread is about sex and your icon is Pee-Wee's Playhouse. Scary. Second, why would you go 30 days without sex?! Link to comment
KissMe_KillMe Posted August 7, 2006 Author Share Posted August 7, 2006 There's nothing wrong with playing a little game like this, and for those who think its stupid to play it....just imagine the amazing sex they'll have when its over. Actually I saw this in a movie; "40 Days And 40 Nights" I believe was the title. It was a really good movie and I don't think I could make it. Why be so addicted to sex that you think you can't live without it? Have fun with life; play games, compete. There's nothing wrong with a little competition from time to time. Good luck holding out! Thank you... yea i actually kinda got that idea form that movie. Link to comment
KissMe_KillMe Posted August 7, 2006 Author Share Posted August 7, 2006 It was my idea to try this out and his idea to actually seriously try it.. im sure we wont last but who knows.. im always bugging him for sex more than he asks me.. so i want him to think i CAN go without it for awhile. its juts for fun i guess.. so far its been like 2 days..lol Link to comment
KissMe_KillMe Posted August 7, 2006 Author Share Posted August 7, 2006 oh yea and pee wee is the * * * *. Link to comment
Ians Mommy Posted August 7, 2006 Share Posted August 7, 2006 oh yea and pee wee is the * * * *. lol I just watched it the other day with my 25 year old brother and we laughed too hard at it. Link to comment
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