Unknown Attraction

[CtinaDitty]

Okay... I seem to be attracting the wrong kind of guys.. THey aren't my type. I rejected 5 guys this year... Why can't I attract a guy that I actually like??

[yeawutever]

It does happen, you were just not into them. Eventually you will find the guy you're attracted to.

[Kevin T]

What was wrong with them?

[Dating Coach]

What was wrong with them?

 

They weren't her type. She said that. I know what motivated your post though.

[Kevin T]

I just wanted to know in what regard she didn't like them. Too quiet? Too obnoxious? Too immature? Too ugly? Too fat?

 

I have a naturally inquisitive mind.

[yeawutever]

Maybe she was just not physically attracted to them.

[Seko]

Or maybe she didn't like the way they approached her. I would post something more in depth, and give examples, but I don't want to hijack the thread, so perhaps someone can point me to another thread where I can answer these questions for KevinT. Either that, or he can start a new one

 

Anyway, as for the CtinaDitty's original post -- I don't know how to answer that, really. Your post was way too short and undetailed for me to give you a good response. The guys you rejected - are they guys that randomly approached you while you were out, at work....were they at clubs, parties, or some similar place? Are you going places specifically to meet guys, or are you just expecting guys to come flocking to you? Are you making yourself approachable, or might you be closing yourself off to outside interactions, except from the very determined? Do you ever get approached by "your type" of guys, and feel that they are not interested in you or that you are driving them away? Do you ever approach "your type" of guy yourself?

 

My guess is that you could attract a guy that is "your type" if you went about it right, but I can't really tell you why you can't at the moment, what you might be doing wrong, or what you can change with the amount of information you've given us.

Is there a specific situation you might want to tell us about, to have us help you further?

[Markers]

what kind of guys you want to attract? and what kind of guys you have been rejecting?

 

If I don't know where you are and where you want to go, I can't show you the way