B_Rock Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 In a number of posts I've read: "its not the size that matters. it's how you use it." ...or something about putting motion in an ocean. But, what moves are good to use when wielding a man sword? Or ladies, what kind of techniques to you like? Link to comment
Aurian Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 You use it with lots of attention to her, responding to her reactions and making it a good experience. As opposed to wham, bam, thankyou mam! Link to comment
Jennster Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 My BF does this swirl thing HAHA...when he's on top he like swirls his hips around...it doesn't really do anything for me to be honest. The thing I do like that he does is vary his pace. And when he goes slow he tries to go deep - it doesn't matter how long a guy is - as long as he can find the right angle and make it feel deep then I'm in heaven Link to comment
ShroomzGod Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 "its not the size that matters. it's how you use it." ...or something about putting motion in an ocean. Ha Ha Ha, Link to comment
ShroomzGod Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 Sorry about that last post, but here's a trick that drives girls wild... If you're small or even if you're huge it doesn't matter, just put the tip in alittle bit and start like that. Once you start to get a reaction from her drive it all the way in. She'll freak out and to her you'll feel like you filled her up. Trust me dude it has worked on every girl I've slept with. They love it. Link to comment
rajabah Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 I'm hung like a tic tac. Girls like it when I talk dirty to them. Link to comment
B_Rock Posted July 11, 2006 Author Share Posted July 11, 2006 haha, "hung like a tic tac" ...now that right there is funny. Thanks for your contributions everyone! Its good advice, I don't so much have a size issue but I sometimes have trouble werkin' it. Link to comment
ShroomzGod Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 haha, "hung like a tic tac" ...now that right there is funny. Thanks for your contributions everyone! Its good advice, I don't so much have a size issue but I sometimes have trouble werkin' it. Do what I said trust me it works, ask the girls I've slept with. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 Just wanted to contribute: yeah, don't do the swirl thing. I wonder if anyone actually likes that. Is that from porn or something? Link to comment
DropToZero Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 I'm not sure if he can exactly "ask" the girls you've slept with unless you want to hand out a few numbers lol, but I dont think those girls would like that haha j/k Anyways, random thing besides just knowing how to use it, how about endurance?...I think a lot of girls want guys who can go longer than 5 minutes too...just a thought to ponder...good luck. Link to comment
bhzmafia Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 Just wanted to contribute: yeah, don't do the swirl thing. I wonder if anyone actually likes that. Is that from porn or something? I havnt done it, but here is a possible explanation: when you hear 'its not how big it is, but how you use it' basically you think "ok, well there is in and out, or around in circles..." Link to comment
ShroomzGod Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 I like it when girls get on top and swirl thier hips, it's kinda hot! I got another sex tip, when your in the missionary position move your body up so your penis will rub her clit while you're going in and out, they like this too. If she's on top rub her clit with your hand they love this as well. Remember that the clit is important while situlating a woman, try to incorporate it at all times. Oral sex is also a good way to make up for other problems so get really good at that. I love this thread lots of fun!!! Link to comment
doyathink Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 Just wanted to contribute: yeah, don't do the swirl thing. I wonder if anyone actually likes that. Is that from porn or something? Yes, I was going to say that too! Why do you guys do that? If the lights are on next time and you do that, look at your girls reaction.... It feels retarded! But somehow must impress you guys. ha ha Link to comment
doyathink Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 I'm not sure if he can exactly "ask" the girls you've slept with unless you want to hand out a few numbers lol, but I dont think those girls would like that haha j/k Anyways, random thing besides just knowing how to use it, how about endurance?...I think a lot of girls want guys who can go longer than 5 minutes too...just a thought to ponder...good luck. Crap.... at this point I would be happy with 5 minutes Link to comment
nottoogreen Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 Use your tongue. Oral is what get's her ready and just do that until she want's you inside. Don't want, make her want you! Link to comment
B_Rock Posted July 12, 2006 Author Share Posted July 12, 2006 Yeah actually I have trouble with the 5 minute thing. Probably because my EXTREAM lack of practice. I hope I can learn to go longer! (...any ladies wanna help me practice!? j/k). Anyway, I won't do the swril thing, but the thing about going shallow and then suddenly deep sounds like fun. I'll be sure to try if I get the chance. Thanks everyone! Link to comment
DropToZero Posted July 12, 2006 Share Posted July 12, 2006 Crap.... at this point I would be happy with 5 minutes LoL, that's not really a great thing if you'd be HAPPY with it hah...geez. It doesn't really make sense though does it?...guys are so trigger happy...and I know I heard this somewhere, someone might be able to recognize and tell me...guys are like bottle rockets, girls are like diesel engines. Guys are lit, ready to fire, then we're out of gun powder and we fall to the ground haha. Girls engines take a long time to warm up, and you have to keep giving it gas, but once they get going...wow, they can go for a long time. Dont know why we're so different when it comes to sex, but yeah, man work on going longer, just try to find a way to control yourself as best as possible. I think I can last about 30 mins then I'm ready to pass out(I say "I think" because I start lose track of time), I'd love to be able to last like 45 mins to an hour. Link to comment
eremy Posted July 12, 2006 Share Posted July 12, 2006 Hmm...don't know how right I actually am with this tip...but here it is anyways. I think it has a fair amount to do with rhythm, though I'm not quite sure how to explain it. Another aspect I'd pay attention to is not just what's going on down south, but the rest of her body as well. But most of all, just stay focused on her. I can almost guarantee that the more she likes it, the more you'll like it . Link to comment
doyathink Posted July 12, 2006 Share Posted July 12, 2006 You know what I find funny is that all over this site I constantly see men writing to pay more attention to their lady and do this and that to her while in the bedroom, BUT, where are all of you in the real world?!?! You need to spread the word a little more that yes, we do like a lot of stimulation and foreplay rocks! How about a little kinky here and there and why do we alway need to be in the bedroom at night. Some men seem to be content with "get in and get out", play for awhile on this or that. CREATIVITY is the key!!! Link to comment
doyathink Posted July 12, 2006 Share Posted July 12, 2006 LoL, that's not really a great thing if you'd be HAPPY with it hah...geez. QUOTE] Ha, no it isn't is it! BUT, it beats the 30 seconds that usually happens! Link to comment
nottoogreen Posted July 12, 2006 Share Posted July 12, 2006 ... guys are like bottle rockets, girls are like diesel engines. ... I'd love to be able to last like 45 mins to an hour. Inexperienced guys who can't relax are like rockets. Control almost does not exist, relaxing works. Don't worry about how long really, both of you are happy matters. Plenty of oral warms her up. 45 min is too long IMHO, she may get sore/hurt, esp outside. My gf (36) and me take 10-25 min after extensive oral. And I often put vaseline around the labia thereafter. Link to comment
FCTex Posted July 12, 2006 Share Posted July 12, 2006 Someone mentioned the "just the tip".....tip. Anyways. One thing is to, just use the tip for a while and rock back and forth like that. Then go a little more and go about 10 thrusts.. Go more, 10 more. A little deeper, and 10 more. Until your all the way in.. And then give 10, and start backing out. Vary the pace a little between each addition. Another thing. When you all the way in, if your on top, her on bottom. Grab a leg of hers, and hold it up. Your able to penetrate much deeper, and at a much better angle. Works wondering if she lays legs off the bed, one wrapped around your waist, the other held by you, and you lean over on the bed, leaning on an elbow. You can REALLY take it town that way, and control it all. I rarely am able to lay back and allow my gf to get on top and do it. She can't sit down on it all the way, and it's uncomfortable. So I have to work with other things, and those above work good. Vary pace is big. Vary depth and angle is always good to remember. And lasting.. I usually only have an orgasm when I see her starting to have one, or her have one.. Which works, because I have a hang up about not wanting to orgasm until she does. But with a little oral to warm up, and some good relaxing. A nice 45 minute to 1 hour time frame isn't hard to obtain. Link to comment
DropToZero Posted July 12, 2006 Share Posted July 12, 2006 You know what I find funny is that all over this site I constantly see men writing to pay more attention to their lady and do this and that to her while in the bedroom, BUT, where are all of you in the real world?!?! You need to spread the word a little more that yes, we do like a lot of stimulation and foreplay rocks! How about a little kinky here and there and why do we alway need to be in the bedroom at night. Some men seem to be content with "get in and get out", play for awhile on this or that. CREATIVITY is the key!!! Ohhh yeah, seriously? You've never met a guy who was more interested in paying attention to you than himself? Wow...I mean, I can't say I don't enjoy sex or anything, but I'll be serious when I say I've literally read up on things and I'm VERY interested in finding new things that would excite a girl. I mean, not to an obsessive point hah, but I mean it when I say I almost study things on the internet(like link removed) or through men's health magazines...or something along those lines that would help me learn as much as possible about what a lot of women like rather than asking her in person(and yes most of it I've learned works VERY well hah). Yes, to the poster and the above too hah, yeah...women love a lot of foreplay, personally I'd rather lure a girl on with foreplay for like an hour or so...I think another thing I'll throw in, because I think I'm going to try this next time with one girl...is like that one guy said to "make her want you." How about with the next girl you're with you try just pretty much teasing a girl until she's begging, meaning by...touching, kissing, lightly rubbing part on her body but where she wants it most until the very end. That's what a lot of girls mean when they say they want build up, or the excitement in being spontaneous(wondering what you'll do next). So yeah...try that, and I'm serious, it should be like mowing your lawn with your hands and mouth, her body being the yard, and then her more prized possessions being like the garden in the middle of the yard that you have to mow around until the end when you go back to weedwack and make it look nice. I love how I keep coming up with these like comparisons hehe Link to comment
FCTex Posted July 12, 2006 Share Posted July 12, 2006 An hour of foreplay is a tad much sometimes. I'm always down for about 20-45 minutes worth max. Anything after that I lose interest.. That and any longer, and my apartment would be a mess. Handcuffs, blind folds, spilled wax candles, food, lube, vibrators, towels, etc.. That, and I'd have to clean the coffee table alot, the couch would have stains, the kitchen table would be trashed.. And my washing machine, would indeed need a washing it's self! So that bring me to another point. Location!! Get out of the bedroom, and get on the computer chair, the coffee table. The washing machine, the dryer.. The sink basin.. The bath tub.. The car.. The bushes! Link to comment
DropToZero Posted July 12, 2006 Share Posted July 12, 2006 An hour of foreplay is a tad much sometimes. I'm always down for about 20-45 minutes worth max. Anything after that I lose interest.. That and any longer, and my apartment would be a mess. Handcuffs, blind folds, spilled wax candles, food, lube, vibrators, towels, etc.. I dont know man, you're only a year older than me, what ever happened to people just making out and enjoying a long foreplay prior to having sex?...I would think near my age you could go for a while. I know what you mean though, I've talked to friends who say the same thing you do, that anything too long and they just lose interest and wouldn't even want to continue...I dont know, I guess I'm just not like that. Inexperienced guys who can't relax are like rockets. Control almost does not exist, relaxing works. Don't worry about how long really, both of you are happy matters. Plenty of oral warms her up. 45 min is too long IMHO, she may get sore/hurt, esp outside. My gf (36) and me take 10-25 min after extensive oral. And I often put vaseline around the labia thereafter. Okay, yeah that's a better word for it I guess...relaxation. Random question though, even though I've been at this site for a decent amount of time...what does IMHO mean? hehe Link to comment
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