I Hate That We Are Soo Far Away...What To Do??

[FarFromPerfikt]

Ok read this Instant message and tell me you dont feel the agony...lol...its like a shakespeare story..I feel like I wont see my ex-boyfriend again...we both want to be together, atleast I hope..but we dont think it will work out...I am so sad and stressed tell me what you would do?? we are two young kids and I dont want to move on. I feel like we are seriously soul mates....I just want to see him again soon....we saw each other 2 weeks ago...and it was amazing.....before then we hadnt seen each other for 6 months but we spoke to each other via the internet and phone a few times.....I am only 17 and Ill be 18 at the beginning of September...how will I beable to plan out all of the important things if I decide to move with him in September?? Like a really good job? Ill need a car?? what about college? actually I dont think Id go right away to college once I got to where he is because I dont know how things will work out...I want to make sure the relationship would be stable....thanks for reading all this... I really appreciate everyone who reads this at Enotalone...you guys are great...thanks for helping....

 

 

 

XHollDollX [7:39 P.M.]: maybe what we need to do is to be patient

Mattyj8589 [7:39 P.M.]: patient but what if it dies between us

XHollDollX [7:40 P.M.]: what will die?

Mattyj8589 [7:40 P.M.]: our feelings maybe

XHollDollX [7:40 P.M.]: for u or for me?

Mattyj8589 [7:40 P.M.]: both.. how much time you talking about?

XHollDollX [7:40 P.M.]: my feelings havent gone away after all this time

Mattyj8589 [7:40 P.M.]: neither have mine

Mattyj8589 [7:41 P.M.]: i told you that

XHollDollX [7:41 P.M.]: less than 2 months, when september comes around Ill make a quick 5,000 dollars at chrisites even though thats not alot and come there, ill come to see you 2 times before that also

Mattyj8589 [7:42 P.M.]: ok

XHollDollX [7:42 P.M.]: we will see each other again

XHollDollX [7:42 P.M.]: I hope

Mattyj8589 [7:42 P.M.]: i can handle 2 months

XHollDollX [7:42 P.M.]: well no Ill see you in august

Mattyj8589 [7:42 P.M.]: aug?

XHollDollX [7:42 P.M.]: or at the end of july just dont loose those feelings...lol

XHollDollX [7:42 P.M.]: what is that too late?

Mattyj8589 [7:43 P.M.]: no i thought sooner but i guess beggers cant be choosers

XHollDollX [7:43 P.M.]: maybe july 17th

XHollDollX [7:43 P.M.]: well see

XHollDollX [7:43 P.M.]: dont be impatient

Mattyj8589 [7:43 P.M.]: ok babe but i gotta head out

Mattyj8589 [7:43 P.M.]: and i do miss you

XHollDollX [7:44 P.M.]: bye

XHollDollX [7:44 P.M.]: ok

Mattyj8589 [7:44 P.M.]: althought you don't think so

XHollDollX [7:44 P.M.]: you know I do.

XHollDollX [7:44 P.M.]: you can keep saying that

[robowarrior]

I would do it, but i would have a backup plan, so you can go back if things go wrong.

[skyjuice]

Hi

 

Cool down.

You are young.

You seems like facing a junction here and it is a rocky one.

Both of you have to have the commitment to make it happen.

 

It would require a lot of patient and efforts and it would not be easy.

 

Your families and friends would tell you that it won't work out and etc...

 

There would be time when both of you does not talk as frequent when one of you is busy with work, study, and having some time for oneself.

 

There would be possible external temptation and etc.

 

One the other hand, you have to think for yourself, what kind of life do you want to live. What is your goal, so that you would not loose yourself well focusing on this relationship.

 

The above is the things you might experience. So if you are willing to face it and overcome it and bear the consequences of your actions. Then you are qualify to go for it.

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