lifeiscash Posted June 11, 2006 Share Posted June 11, 2006 I have a girlfriend that I care so much about. She is a great girl and I see her in my future for quite a while. I realize how lucky of a guy I am and how great of a person she is. Well its been a year now on Monday and I never been big on the anniversary phase because I never really had a long term g/f. Well, I want to do something special for her but I am broke. Yea, I'm a college student taking many summer school hours and thereforeeee I don't have a job. She is a cool girl and doesn't mind that I don't take her out and buy her things all the time, (in fact she buys most of my things), she works as a bartender in a bar.. and since she is hot, stupid guys tip her outrageous sums of money. Is there anything I can do that expresses to her how much I care about our relationship without spending loads of money. I mean I can write her a poem and buy her flowers and all that but wouldn't see be expecting more? Any ideas? Link to comment
eyeswideopen Posted June 11, 2006 Share Posted June 11, 2006 What kinds of things is she into? IS she in college? What's her major? What's the thing you two have the most in common together? Link to comment
friscodj Posted June 11, 2006 Share Posted June 11, 2006 What is something that you guys enjoy doing together, but don't do enough of? Treat her to something like that... Link to comment
Hope75 Posted June 11, 2006 Share Posted June 11, 2006 How about cooking her dinner, burning a CD of her favorite songs to play while you serve it by candle light with a bottle of wine, and follow up with a full body massage? Link to comment
vesper Posted June 11, 2006 Share Posted June 11, 2006 Remember my friend, flowers go a very long way. Girls love receiving flowers. Find out what her favorite ones are, surprise her with them, a lot of them. Link to comment
keenan Posted June 11, 2006 Share Posted June 11, 2006 Oh yeah...Hope75 and Bondgirl are right on. This is perfect. Link to comment
monkey1 Posted June 11, 2006 Share Posted June 11, 2006 I'd LOVE if my boyfriend gave me flowers ... I've never received flowers. Just try to make her feel really special on your anniversary. No need to spend loads of money, just make some dinner for her, and spend the evening together. Link to comment
Momene Posted June 11, 2006 Share Posted June 11, 2006 She'll know the score about you being short of money, so won't expect anything ridiculous. Link to comment
friscodj Posted June 11, 2006 Share Posted June 11, 2006 Also, she knows your financial situation so if you do take her out to a fancy dinner for example, it will mean that much more because of the financial sacrifice involved...and then you can eat Ramen for a week to make up for it or something... I don't know, that's just a thought and it depends on how you think she'd receive that type of gesture. Some women might shy away from this idea... Link to comment
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