baka Posted June 10, 2006 Share Posted June 10, 2006 Guys, would really appriecate the expertise.... with my situation. Anyhow, there was this girl at my work place... I didnt really noticed her until very- very recently. She and i work in the same dpt but in a different group. When I 1st joined the company she and i didn't really talk, we were more like strangers saying "hi" as we walked by each other. I didn't exactly remember who started staring at who first but i know she was definitely flirting with me recently. Anyhow, she and i somehow gotten closer, we started talking about topics such as, "so how was your weekend etc." So, anyhow, the other day i bumped into her at the restroom area, talked and joked a few mins...after we were done with our businesses, she and i happened to leave the restroom at the sametime. As we were slowly walking back to our desks she suddenly wrapped her arms around my arms??? Well, at that point i was seriously speechless but i acted cool as if nothing happened. When we arrived at her desk, she unwrapped herself and we chit-chatted more and then i went back to my desk. I seriously dont know, but i get the sense....she has been appearing infront of me more than usual. Then the other day, once again she and i bumped into each at the printer room. I told her i got these really funny pics, photos of women in weird accidents, from online. She encouraged me to send them to her and which i did. We chatted more thru Email, arguing rather women were good drivers or not. The next day, she emailed me and asked if i wanted to join her for lunch with her co-worker (male) but i said i had plans with my friend. Sometimes she would tap me in the back/head for fun, as a form of joking with me. When we were talking, i noticed she was definitely closer than back then. The odd thing was, sometimes when i walked by her looking at her she dodes not look back at me, huh? I am so confused! Now, my question is.... is this girl doing friendly flirting with me or the flirting with hidden interest towards me? My friends told me i should ask her out and see what her reaction would be... but i dont wanna get rejected. Not to mention, she and i will be seeing each other a lot. PLz enlighten me, thx! Link to comment
butterflies Posted June 10, 2006 Share Posted June 10, 2006 most likely she's into you. do you like her? if you do, then ask her out. Link to comment
nicorette Posted June 10, 2006 Share Posted June 10, 2006 theres no way to find out for sure without asking her! do as butterflies said! Link to comment
baka Posted June 10, 2006 Author Share Posted June 10, 2006 well, i want to ask her out... but before so i want to make sure... she is giving me the green light to do so. And what are the obvious signals. Sorry, im a late bloomer so im so bad at these things. Reccently, i met this girl we chatted, she even told me she likes to talk with me.. but at the end, she is actually after my best friend. i seriosuly dont want history to repeat itself. Link to comment
nicorette Posted June 10, 2006 Share Posted June 10, 2006 i understand. well us women are quite confusing that way. not a great thing hey? is there any way to find out if she likes you before you ask her out? have you heard from anyone that she likes you or aynthing? Link to comment
baka Posted June 10, 2006 Author Share Posted June 10, 2006 not really....thats why i am somewhat afraid to ask her....! And seek advice as to what i should do to ensure that she likes me, before pulling anything. Link to comment
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