Dont Know What to Do??

[Sweetie_Splash]

I've been dating my friends cousin now for a while now and I've always had these feelings that I wanted to be alone with him to ..you know, well I dont know how to tell him that i want to go do something and how do i let her know without just saying it... Another problem is that he just recently was given a perfect opportunity to cheat on me but he didnt and he told his cousin who told me that I popped in his head and he's not the one to go soft like that . . I dont know how to take that it's kind of a mixed thing but now i think that he and others were just thinking i wanted to raise the bar because of that incident when really I just know what I want and that is to do the grown folk thing lol . . I just dont know what move to make or what to say with him I cant be too soft because he's not that kind of guy . .Please help!

[becallamjr]

I would suggest just bringing it up with him, openly communicating with your partner is the best way so that no mixed signals are sent.