justlikeyou Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Hey! The guy I am dating and I don't have sex, but we do currently make out like crazy. He recently played with my nipples for over an hour . Can I return the favor? Is there an equivalent way to please him? Not oral. Can I kiss him or toy with his nipples in a similar way/effect? Link to comment
orgasmictofu Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Ask him. Some guys like having their nipples played with, some don't. Link to comment
novaseeker Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Ask. It's a very erogenous zone for many men, but it's also kind of a taboo area as well for some men, so it's worth asking. Link to comment
Slacker Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Some men find it immasculating, i find it dull, most of my friends would agree. you should talk to him about it. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Yea, ask him, maybe he might find it funny, then again maybe not. Link to comment
Tigris Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 I did it to my 2nd husband and he said it tickled so he didn't particularly like it. Just ask him and if he hasn't done it before then experiment. Link to comment
Dako Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Drives me nuts but then, I'm a sissy. Link to comment
Bethany Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 I'm with Slacker.... Most men find it dull, unless their name is Dako of course but he's a sissy. Try a massage instead. Link to comment
Dako Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 I have a strange reaction where my palate tickles at the same time. It's like someone's in there with a feather. Believe it or not, the combination is pretty amazing. I suppose it's not common, so maybe just us sissies get off on it. Link to comment
orgasmictofu Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 My boyfriend likes having his nipples GENTLY played with. And he's definitely not a sissy. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 I have a strange reaction where my palate tickles at the same time. It's like someone's in there with a feather. Believe it or not, the combination is pretty amazing. I suppose it's not common, so maybe just us sissies get off on it. lol! You big freak My ex (male) LOVED it. I on the other hand get bored with it very easily. Give him a brush over them and see what his reaction is. Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 He played with them for over an hour? Geez didn't that get boring? Link to comment
justlikeyou Posted May 17, 2006 Author Share Posted May 17, 2006 He played with them for over an hour? Geez didn't that get boring? Well, there won't be much more for awhile, so I guess it will do/does do. He has a nipple ring, does that mean anything? I will also ask him when I see him, but I am just hoping to get some advice in advance. I feel bad not being able to offer him much more than kissing right now. Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 I feel for you Im just speculating, but if he does have a nipple ring, then maybe he has a nipple thing. Add that to the fact that he's sooo fascinated with yours....yep, he probably wants a little nipple play himself..... Link to comment
yeawutever Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 Yea an hour is a long time. Was dating this guy and when it came to the nipples, I didn't lasted for then few seconds, cuz I'm very ticklish and didn't feel comfortable around the nipples. Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 Yeah, myself, I mean an hour would be about 55 mins too long, but maybe that's just me. Anyway good luck just like you. Link to comment
justlikeyou Posted May 17, 2006 Author Share Posted May 17, 2006 Thanks everyone! I never laugh when I read other people's posts, but when I post mine own and know it involves me - it does make me blush/laugh a bit. Anyways, thanks again! Link to comment
RayKay Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 Definitely ask or suggest it, and see how he goes. It really does vary...I had one ex whom absolutely HATED you even going near his nipples, I mean he really hated it. My current one likes it when I nip or lick them quite a lot, so it really something you have to find out from him. Good luck Link to comment
robowar Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 I personally love it, but just communicate with your boy. Link to comment
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