How do you get over a crush?

[Lady2091607306439]

How do you get over someone who you've never actually dated? I seem to have that problem. I never found it difficult to get over someone that I was actually involved with. But I only went out on 2 very casual dates with this guy over 2 months ago (I've known him for a little under a year though), and I just can't get over him! If i'm not seeing someone else, i always think about him. I know we're completely wrong for each other (it's actually really involved, so please take my word for it - it could never work and I don't wanna put myself through that misery). But at the same time it's totally bugging me! Getting over someone has never been so hard for me! I just want to get him out of my mind for good. How do I do this??

 

Thanx for reading and help me out if you can!

[izabel]

hi..

mm.. first of all why do u even think about it when u know there is gonna be nothing..? heyy comon get urself busy in other things and let go of this..

 

its said that if something is not in yur hands let go of it and if its true and meant for yu it will come back to yu no matter what it takes..

 

so when u know its nothing then why make ur mind go round and round on the same point which is not gonna give u any positive results..

 

so get busy in other activities, get new frends, go out with them explore new things.. and most of all do things which keeps and makes u feel satisfied and happy..plzz.. and dont ever torture urself for anything which has no meaning ok ..

 

take care..best of luck

[andalusia]

posted by izabel:

"its said that if something is not in yur hands let go of it and if its true and meant for yu it will come back to yu no matter what it takes..."

 

i had a friend who constantly tried to let her abusive husband "go" and he would always "come back" looking for her. i don't think he was meant for her at all. so that saying isn't necessarily true.

 

point blank, if the man is misery in the flesh LEAVE HIM ALONE!

 

no sense in creating a relationship that is going to make you . right?