Not Sure

[Shizzle]

what to do any more.

 

i been with my gf for 8 months now. and we have been arguin alot on & off since january. i kinda know why. but last night she just pushed me too far.

 

i had a arument with my mates gf, and she was taking my girl home becuse i wasnt driving that night. and i didnt wanna go in the car having hust argued with the other girl. cause i feel like am been hypercrit.

 

so my gf goes off on one saying "oh am i that much effort" when she knows i have spent the last 7 months with her nearly everyday and for once i didnt wanna go home with her.

 

anyway i just dunno cause after last night i just feel unsure about her now.

why should i bother to put up with it? if i dont wanna do summit i shouldnt be made to do it or put a guilt trip on to make me do it.

 

but she thinks i should do whatever she asks. when she asks.

 

so help please.

[evy38]

I'm sorry but I didn't understand the middle portion of this post.

[Shizzle]

basically she plays the guilt trip on me to get me to do things. but she doesnt seem to understand she is doing it

[evy38]

I think you need to point it out, when she does this and tell her it is not an effective tool to get her way. Then don't let her have it. She can only learn when things are pointed out.

[Momene]

Under the circumstances I can see why you didn't want to go home with her if you'd had an argument with the driver. Try explaining that to your girlfriend.