Would it have been ok?

[a bit clueless]

Ok, well last night, my girlfriend and I were like all over each other, kissing and hugging and all. And it was a cold night so I was holding her like for so long and whatnot, but you think it would have been alright if I put my hand on her butt. Just wondering cause I'd like to; just not sure if she would like it or not. So, I'm just asking if it would probably have been good if I did place my hands on her butt. =)

[NewPhillyGuy]

when in doubt, just ask.

[smilelikeyoumeanit]

It depends on how long you've been going out, your comfort level with eachother, ect.... If you could tell us that then we might be able to have a little clearer understanding and in turn give you more help.

[Tigris]

You'll soon know if she doesn't want you to because she'll move it if she's feeling uncomfortable about it!

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

Whatever you do, do it gently and affectionately rather than roughly for the first few times.

[a bit clueless]

We'be been going out for about 5-6 months... taking a little slow I guess?

[flutegirl23]

no, not really. i finally kissed my bf after about 6 months, and i was 16 and he was 19 so, i don't think you're moving that slow at all, unless we were at a snails pace

[jayjay7]

I love it when my boyfriend gropes me all over, especially my bum! Feels great

[shyanne]

not a good idea if you just started dating...or in public.. i think once you become intimate it would be okay but never in public

[PRSOV]

If your in bed, just be gentle... as the others have said above if she doesn't like it, she'll move it