2nd meeting trouble

[bhat963]

Ok i met this girl for the first time and we played tennis and had a great time. Now its been 3 days and I want to do something with her again. She said for me to call her and I'm thinking when I call her I should ask her to do something... but I don't know whats the best thing to do since I'm not that experienced with girls.

 

Im thinking the movies but she might think of it as a date and although I do like her more than a friend, I think that would be too quick. And she could come over but I think that might be boring. Any suggestions on where or what can we do? and no swimming because i cant swim...

[secret_agent_man]

Go for the movies! It's easy to not talk, and just spend time together. If you think it's too "date" oriented, then bring friends! Friends always make breaking the ice easier!

 

I agree, it's easier to call for a purpose than to just call to talk. It's always easier that way, so you've got the right approach. As time goes on, you'll figure her out a little bit more and you'll be able to tell more how she feels about you. (don't wory, you'll never figure her out completely )

 

Just take it slow, stay comfortable, and keep in touch enough for her to tell you're interested, but not enough that you seem obsessive. (it can be a hard line to find, but try not to go too far in either direction)

 

Good luck, just give it a shot!

 

S.A.M.

[faeriedoll]

Ask her if she wants to meet you for a cup of coffee or a coke somewhere.....this isn't really a date as it's something girls also do with eachother.