bhat963
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Friday we went to the movies- she said she had a good time. Then wednesday she called me, and i asked if she wanted to go for a dinner for a second date and she said yes. Now i want to seriously get her to want me... badly- she already likes me but i want her to love me. Plus i want to get a kiss in there as well. Any advice for a second date? By the way, the first date, I didn't even touch her- i played it safe. You think I should up the anty the second date?
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I have this crush on a friend of mine, who isn't a "close" friend but we have hung out before over the Summer. For the beginning semesters, I barely saw her at all at school. But eventually I realized, at the end of the day, her and I would cross paths. We used to say hi and poke eachother and so forth as we walk by for months. A month ago, for some reason I found it hard to say "hi" to her as I passed by... Its a mixed feeling. And we havent talked to eachother when we walk by ever since. This drought I feel has dampened our relationship and I don't know what to do now. I feel stupid to all of a sudden talk to her in the hallways... but what should i do? Should i restart the occasional hi's then do something? I admit, I should've stopped her in the halls a long time ago to ask her to do something but I could not find the courage to do so. I care about her a lot and this is affecting me emotionally. I don't have a lot of girl/friends or anybody that can make me feel as good as she does. What do you think I should do or say to end this long time of no talking?
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Can i please get a reply before i screw things up?
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Eclipse i totally know what you mean. I will take action but I want to make sure 99% that i dont mess up. Crookster_man, there is a dance coming up next week. She is very popular but I am thinking about asking her to it. I am almost 100% sure she has a date, but its worth a try. But this might be coming on to much... Would it then be better to pass asking up a popular cheerleader to a dance for a movie? I am thinking about doing the movie first, then finding out if she has a date, ask her then.
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The girl that I like occasionally playfully kicks me in the hallway everytime i pass her in the hallways. She is a cheerleader and is often sought for by guys. I haven't made any move on her yet, and this indifference of not going after her and showing no sexual interest in her maybe has made her have better thoughts about me. She is a friend of mine but I am looking to be a closer friend of hers. The problem is... what do i do? Do i make the first move or do I keep on doing what I'm doing until something happens? Because flirting in the hallways does get old... something has to happen. Help me out peeps.
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I have been rejected many times; most specifically by cheerleaders. This has had a big effect on my personality- I cant seem to be that fun guy I was the previous year. Now im more of an outcast and anti-social. I had many friends last year but this string of rejections has had an effect on me. Plus I have this inability to go after girls, especially ones I like. I just dont feel like going through all the trouble being rejected. Also, I have lost a lot of self-confidence. Is this an effect of rejection?
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She signed off. Is it the same thing if she signed off? Should she apologize also?
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Ok back to this girl I like- I asked her last Wednesday to go swimming with her online- it wasnt forced or anything like that. She just said she was doing something with some kid and said "I dont think so" then with an unhappy face at the end and signed off. The uneasiness of this might've played into the akwardness we have now. We haven't "talked" online, on the phone, or in person since then. When we pass by, she either looks at me or looks away or I look at her and look away. Even sometimes it seems like she hides from me by talking with her friends when she usually walks by herself. There is this uneasiness caused by that one moment on AOL IM. I have waited for almost a week now and she hasnt been online. Should i resort to calling her to calm things down or talk to her in the hallway about the issue? If so, what do I say? "Hey its ok if u signed off so and so-" I have no clue. Help out the inexperienced fool one more time
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I was just wondering for the specifics on what to say. We havent "Talked" besides on the phone and on the computer since we hung out. I dont want to just "Be myself" and do something stupid. Whats the best way of going about this? And yes, I want to ask her to do something like the movies this weekend. Should I do it early or later i dont know but can somebody give me some advice on what to say. Sure, I can say "you want to go to the movies this weekend" right away but that might seem pushing it a little. Should I just say "Hey, wanna talk?" and stuff like that.... Im worried.
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It's been three weeks into school and me and this girl have not hung out since one day in the summer. We have talked a lot online and we haven't had much time to talk in person. After the third week of school, I figured I could ask her to do something. She, being a cheerleader, and a popular person, I did not really expect too much. But at least i expected a sincere no or yes. But she said she was hanging out with some guy and made a sad face and then signed off immediately. I do not know why she did that. I do see her a couple times in the halls and I do say hi and touch her on the arm and stuff affectionately which she likes. But I just dont have time to talk to her in the school. Anyways the main problem here is that I do not know to ask her again to do something next weekend and how i should ask her (online, in person, or on the phone). Either way, I do not know what is going on and I don't know what to do. Help me out anyone.
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well i asked her over the internet and she said she had plans. But next week, i am willing to ask her in person.
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me and this girl (she's 15) hung out one time this summer and now that we're already into two weeks in the school year, I have a good feeling she likes me. She smiles at me a lot and looks at me for a while. I am certainly confident that she does. I like her too but I dont know how to ask her to hangout- in school, on the phone, online? What do u think would be the best approach and what do u think we should do? (And i dont think i should ask her out yet since we only hung out once) What do two people (guy and girl) do with eachother? movies? hangout at houses? give me some tips please
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Last night I was invited to one of my girl/friends parties and I couldn't go. Now she was upset that I didn't go and I told her I wasn't allowed. It sounds lame but i was sick and it was at midnight and my parents didnt let me go. But now i have a feeling she thinks less of me and probably won't want to hang out with me again. What should I do to repair what happened?because it was out of my control to be at that party...
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Sure, i know your supposed to be yourself but I am wondering at this party, since this girl i like probably likes me- im trying to think of a way to win her over with some charmful words. Anybody have any suggestions from experience?
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What kind of party is it? Well the party is an after football game party. She is a cheerleader and shes hosting it after the boys Varsity football game. I would not say its a casual get together but rather an event. She's at the moment a casual friend and someone that i'm a little interested in. But i dont want her to think i LIKE her yet but I want to give her a gift as a good present. and on a side note, we've hung out before.