PutYourBackIntoIt Posted March 12, 2006 Share Posted March 12, 2006 Just want to know what people thing of calling a female the "C" word. I honestly think this is the worst thing you can say to a girl. My ex called me this last night when he was rip roarin drunk because I met someone else, and am very happy with the new guy. I am very, VERY offended, and hurt, yet again by this guy. Just when I thought I wouldn't be hurt by him anymore, he finds some way to do it again. This is something, I feel, you should never call a women. What do you all think? Link to comment
NewPhillyGuy Posted March 12, 2006 Share Posted March 12, 2006 Yeah, he sounds like an * * *. Link to comment
Alaszar Posted March 12, 2006 Share Posted March 12, 2006 It is a very very offensive word to call a girl, specially when u once had or still have feelings for the girl u loved. Link to comment
Beyondthesea Posted March 12, 2006 Share Posted March 12, 2006 Yes it's offensive, and why are you bothering to talk to him? It should be strict no contact with this jerk. Link to comment
NewPhillyGuy Posted March 12, 2006 Share Posted March 12, 2006 Yes it's offensive, and why are you bothering to talk to him? It should be strict no contact with this jerk. agreed. don't bother with him. Link to comment
Mrocza Posted March 12, 2006 Share Posted March 12, 2006 That's why he's an ex right? Link to comment
altosinger314 Posted March 12, 2006 Share Posted March 12, 2006 Most definitely it's offensive! Sometimes it can just be a playful banter insult kind of thing with friends, but I think the tone is offensive and derogatory in this context. Link to comment
PutYourBackIntoIt Posted March 13, 2006 Author Share Posted March 13, 2006 I think he called me this because I had been ignoring his texts/messages! No contact was in full order. I told him I had met someone else and to leave me alone. He kept texting/calling but I had been ignoring him for a week. Didn't hear anything for 2 days and then he blows up my cell phone at 1am. I had about 30 missed calls and 20 different texts, and he called me the c word in one of the texts. Link to comment
Beyondthesea Posted March 13, 2006 Share Posted March 13, 2006 Well then keep a list of all the times he contacts you/copies of texts, etc. You can use that as evidence for a restraining order if the time comes, and it sounds like it's getting to that point. BTW, abusive men normally start getting worse and can go over the edge and do something illegal (such as 'kidnap' you, etc) when they realize you have found someone else. Be careful. Better be paranoid than dead! Link to comment
PutYourBackIntoIt Posted March 13, 2006 Author Share Posted March 13, 2006 You are so right about the abusive men comment. He has gotten progressively worse with the passing of time, I've noticed. I didn't give much thought to it until I woke up this morning. He's NEVER called me a name like that before, and he's never blew up my phone like that. Before, it was minimal, nothing compared to last night. Granted he was drunk, but still, if alcohol makes someone do that, I'm afraid. Link to comment
cingularity83 Posted March 13, 2006 Share Posted March 13, 2006 What the hell is the " C " word..... Link to comment
PutYourBackIntoIt Posted March 13, 2006 Author Share Posted March 13, 2006 C U Next Tuesday... Link to comment
yeawutever Posted March 14, 2006 Share Posted March 14, 2006 What exactly does the "C" means??? Link to comment
Mrocza Posted March 14, 2006 Share Posted March 14, 2006 It's a derogatory term for the female genitalia. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted March 15, 2006 Share Posted March 15, 2006 It's a derogatory term for the female genitalia. Like clitoris, cutch? Is that what it means? If so, then yea, it's heck offensive. Link to comment
Mrocza Posted March 16, 2006 Share Posted March 16, 2006 The is the C-word, snatch, box, p-word...etc. Tons of 'em. Link to comment
badBoy101 Posted March 19, 2006 Share Posted March 19, 2006 It's just a word, there are far worse things happening in the world - time for you to grow up and get over yourself Link to comment
Sad_now Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 It's not the usage of a single word, but the context that is offensive. Don't ever allow anyone to tell you that it's OK for an ex to call you that. YOU decide YOUR boundaries. Why are you feeling bad about it? He's still hung up on you and is now getting desperate. Pity him and just let him be. No need to even respond. Don't feel bad. He's upset at having lost you... Link to comment
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